spritiekins

Okay any one that use text speak on here in a message needs to really learn that it makes you look rather uneducated, whether you are or not. Another thing READ THE WHOLE DAMN PROFILE before you even THINK about messaging me.

I sit here and come across profiles of Dominants who are 19 and 20, and I wonder to myself if they are self proclaimed Dominants or if they actually know what it means to be one. I also have to laugh at the I am looking for such and such and they will do what I say when I say it and I will humiliate and degrade them. I understand some women like that, but really do they think we are all like that? If they do then they are sadly mistaken.

What happened to if you can't say something nice don't say it at all? I do not fit every one's type and I am completely ok with that. If you don't like how I look then move on but to send a message like oink oink squeeeel..yeah that is going to get you blocked or told where to go and how fast to get there.

Men wonder why the women on here are flaky well let's see, we either get called names right away with them assuming that because we are sub/slave we will bow down to just anyone, or we get told that we don't know what we are looking for but they will show us the way..sorry doesn't work that way for me.

Some days I wonder why I stay on this site..

Well it seems some men on here don't understand that when some one says they don't give out info unless they know some one personally, it means just that..not that you can go look me up elsewhere and then come back and try to prove a point.  Doing that only irritates me and people wonder why it is hard for subs/slave/Dom/Masters/Mistresses to trust people, oh I don't know probably because of yahoos like the one I encountered.

In this lifestyle, NO means NO! It also means that if some one says that you aren't what they are looking for then don't be a jerk and make some snarky comment about how one can't assume just from a profile you know what they are looking for.  IF it is on your profile people will assume that is exactly what you are looking for and that it does or doesn't fit what they are looking for.

I do not lead people on, if I think we might have a connection then I will talk with you, if I don't feel you are what I am looking for then I won't continue the conversation for long. Whether people like it or not, I do know EXACTLY what I am looking for, and I will NOT settle for less. I may never find what I am seeking, but that is not for some one else to worry about, it is all on me, and so be it. I will either eventually find it or I won't and I will continue to have fun while looking. Ok Rant over.

Ok let's get this out there now..if I don't answer right away but I have read your email and viewed your profile it means one of two things, I am either trying to think of something to say and be nice, or REAL LIFE has taken me away from what I was doing. I have children and a husband and friends that call or text or they need something and I am there for them.  It DOES NOT mean I am rude or a flake or fake, so put your big boy underwear on and realize that I actually have a life that doesn't involve a computer.

WHAT PART OF I AM NOT LOOKING FOR 24/7 DOES NOT COMPUTE ?