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I'm a Dominant/Disciplinarian - with over 15 years of active experience - looking to meet interesting people, submissive women or couples. I enjoy mentoring others, comparing thoughts and friendship. Always seeking Dommes for possible couple or group play. My interests and kinks are wide ranging - far beyond those listed here. Native English speaker aber du kannst mir auch auf Deutsch schreiben. I desire the mental aspects of D/s as much as the physical. It is the internal struggle - both physical and mental - that I am most interested in. This struggle can come in many s - pain and pleasure, of course; yet there exist more subtle things - holding still when you want to move; doing something you might find embarrassing and arousing at the same time; or the hesitancy to confess that hidden need or desire. And the most enjoyable struggle - orgasm control - to be on the edge, needing release but having it...... delayed. I also enjoy Disciplinarian roles I believe in Domestic Discipline (DD) - providing structure and consequences. I plan to post writings on this topic in the near future but feel free to ask me, if this topic interests you. Having said all this, I don't think of myself as a "typical Dom". I don't take myself too seriously - I'm easy-going at the same time confident and direct; strict, yet caring. I don't believe in abuse - I respect submissives. You will never hear me say things like "Subs don't get to say no". I'm Caucasian, tall (190cm), slim and fit, late 50s, educated professional type. I am sane, clean, DDF and fully vaccinated, non-smoker. Safe play only. Non-monogamous. Sense of humor and many interests outside of kink. I've traveled extensively and lived/worked in both Europe and the US. I consider myself expatriated wherever I live. I'm not going to approach our initial conversations as a Dom - that's a relationship that develops as we get to know each other. However, I do believe in mutual respect and manners - that's the beginning of any friendship or relationship. Speaking of respect, I respect hard limits so please communicate those early. I'm very happy to help you explore and push softer limits in a safe and sane manner. Each D/s relationship is unique. I enjoy couples (MF or FF) where one or both are submissive and other s of group play. Cuckold situations are welcome. No single men. This is not a "lifestyle" for me - I don't have a dungeon, I don't want to rule your life. My hard limits include physical injury, blood, scat, bimboification and ahegao. Otherwise, I'm open to a wide range of kinks and dynamics. For this to work, you have to be able to communicate. It's okay to be shy or uncertain, but if you can't carry on a conversation or answer a question with more than one word, it won't work. One line opening messages I interpret as spam or solicitation and I won't respond - yes, women do that as well. I do want to get to know you and your desires, so I'm glad to chat and make sure we are both looking for the same thing, flirting and banter are encouraged. Be open and honest, as will I. I won't pressure you to meet or play - that possibility will evolve organically - perhaps quickly, perhaps slowly or not at all. I enjoy hearing from women or couples that don't have a lot of experience and are just starting to explore. Married women are welcome and I am discreet - everyone should have the freedom to explore who they are. I respect women that are virgins or practicing chastity (and want to stay that way). I'm body positive so skinny, HWP or curvy are all good. No silicon - no judgement, just my preference. Excellent hygiene a must. Please be DDF. I don't tolerate trumpism -- hate, racism, religious zealotry and misogyny. Wow. You made it though all that :) If you are still awake and interested in chatting, contact me with some ination about yourself and interests. Always feel free to ask me questions.

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donnna1985
 
 Age: 35
 Left Coast, Canada