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Male Switch, 54, Auck
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Male Submissive, 46, north west
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Male Dominant, 68, Auckland
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About splodey84
So out in the real world, I'm an ex-military, ex-security professional who somehow ended up working in software development, specifically in the department of finding new and interesting ways to break the applications that my company develops. It doesn't sound terribly exciting, but I rather enjoy it and folks keep paying me. So yeah.
I'm a bit on the strange side. Some of my hobbies include watching movies, playing video games, exercise, hiking/camping, trips to the firing range, and reading the occasional book, though I am also involved with various semi-obscure board games and tabletop games, and do some writing when I feel creative. I've attended a handful of various conventions for nerdy things, and as you have likely guessed by my presence here, I am rather into kink.
Calling it a lifestyle in my case isn't entirely accurate; it's something I prefer to keep behind the closed doors of the bedroom. I consider myself a switch, though I lean more toward the dominant end of the spectrum. While I generally enjoy being in control, I'm not against handing over the reins to the right person. I like to be accommodating.
I guess what I'm mainly looking for would be a relationship that's one part vanilla, two parts kink. We'd appear as a fairly normal (but perhaps a bit eccentric) couple to the rest of the world, but in private we'd let our true colors show. That being said, I don't have as much experience with the lifestyle as I would like, so I'm open to being pushed in the right direction if you're looking to be a guiding hand of sorts.
Anyway, that's me in a nutshell; a kinky, tech-savvy Army vet with a bunch of nerdy hobbies. Also of note, I'm a little self conscious about being on here, thus my face being hidden. However, if we get to talking, I'm more than willing to send a better pic. |
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