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Every person, at every stage of their life, is a work in progress, and I am not ashamed to admit that I am no exception.  I have studied all I can get my hands on, trying to figure out who I am, where I fit in, but in the end it boils down to instinct, and following my gut.  I overthink things, and that's a flaw I would like to fix, but in the end, when I get my head out of the way, I know several things about me, on a gut level. 

I am a Dominant.  I do not know this because anyone has told me, I simply know it in my heart, in my soul, in every fiber of my being.  It is one of the cornerstones of who I am.

I am a writer.  Not related to the subject matter of this particular site, except that it defines me, and self-awareness, although not something I am extremely good at all the time, is important in this Lifestyle.  I am a writer -- nothing satisfies me in quite the same way as putting words on the page and telling a tale.

I am, at my core, a communicator.  I enjoy talking to people, in any setting, through any medium, at any time.  I enjoy a good story, if you want to tell one, and I enjoy telling my stories, if you care to listen.  I enjoy a spirited debate, and I don't have to be right, but I do have a deep-seated need to make my point of view understood, and to understand others' points of view in turn.

I am looking for several things, in a very specific order.  I'm looking, first and foremost, for friends, people I can talk to, spend time with, whether online or in real life.  I am looking, perhaps, once friends have been made, to find a little romance.  I am interested in seeing whatever romance may develop deepen and become a significant aspect of my life.  And, finally, I hope to take that significant part of my life and translate it into a 24/7 D/s relationship, a partnership, a power exchange.  Living the Lifestyle is a goal, but the path to that goal is pretty vanilla, in my opinion.

If you've actually read all this, thank you for your time -- time is valuable, and I know you didn't have to read all this stuff.  If you like what you read, feel free to send me a message.  I'm always looking for people to talk to.
7/15/2007 2:30:40 PM
I have recently deleted all of my journal entries (there were only three) because my life has changed so much in the last few months.  The women I had written about were not what I thought they were, not what they claimed to be, and I want something real.