I have been in WIIWWD for over twenty years.  The great majority of this time I have served as a Dom and have been a part of the BDSM community in my locale. With the assistance of a lovely Woman, I have explored my sub side and have grown to enjoy life from the "other side" of the paddle.  It has also given me personal growth and space to test preconceived notions (mostly false) on the power dynamic 

Make no mistake - I am very Alpha in my vanilla life as a business owner and consultant.  This I can not and will not change.  This is central to how I am.  And no, this does not mean I will be topping from the bottom.  I am college degreed, well read, traveled and intellectually curious.  In my past, I have taught college level photography and am a computer and video professional.

The reference to SPH is merely my kinky mind at work.  I'm actually quite average in size but I do enjoy the concept of the SPH interaction.