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	True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate his life, through devotion, to something beyond himself.~Henry Miller Who I am ? I am a erotic voluptuous woman. I know my truest strength is in being other centered. I believe in the good in people. I believe in monogamy. I am a poet and a writer. I am fairly decent cook. I am bluntly honest, so please don't ask if you aren't truly sure you want the answer. I have a sharp wit. I find life fraught with humor and vitality. I understand the value of worry and misfortune. I believe in the natural order of Dominance and submission. I believe in discipline. I believe to get respect you must first offer respect. I am fairly well educated about the lifestyle and I enjoy learning. I devote my passions whole heartedly to who I am and whom I serve. My life is drama minimum. I am not broken so please don't treat me like I need fixing. I am not always self assured but I am always evolving to be better than I was. While I am actively seeking my ONE, I usually don't solicit Men, I wait to be approached. I am worthy of your friendship and your time but Only You can decide to find that out for yourself. The true story always lies in the lines on the pages not in the pictures on the outside cover.

1/10/2012 10:41:10 PM

When you’re plus size woman, people like to say "yeah, she's cute in the face", as if being full figured is such a disgrace. Honey, I’m cute in the face, and I’m thick in the waist. I look good whether I’m in cotton, leather, or lace. I’m beautiful, vibrant and above all, smart! And there's more to me than my weight, I also have a heart. Yes my clothes maybe a bigger size, that just means you have access to a bigger prize. We all are not self-conscious about our weight, and we never have a problem getting a date. So don’t think your small frame gives you more pull, I’m a hot, sexy, curvy woman with a figure that's full.

8/7/2011 11:21:03 AM

The sad truth is this that lessons seldom are ever learned easily. I have become rather lax in my manners. ~sighs softly~ I humbly apologize if I have unintentionally offended YOu with my lack of thought.

9/17/2010 2:08:23 PM

ATTENTION:: TO THOSE OF YOU THAT FEEL IT NECESSARY TO SEND CONTINUAL NASTYGRAMS IN MY EMAIL BOX. I AM QUITE FLATTERED YOU TAKE THE TIME FROM YOUR SMALL LIVES TO WRITE TO ME. HOWEVER, I AM JUST CURIOUS ABOUT SOMETHING. DO YOU REALLY SUPPOSE FOR ONE MOMENT THAT YOUR POINTING THE OBVIOUS MAKES YOU LOOK ANYTHING BUT SMALL AND IGNORANT? I AM FLUFFY. GET OVER IT ALREADY. I AM NOT ASKING YOU TO UNDERSTAND, LIKE OR WANT ME. SO PLEASE, GET OVER YOUR SMALL MIND AND MOVE ON. I TRULY HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO WITH MY TIME THAN TO READ GARBAGE.

8/25/2010 9:11:48 AM

This morning I received a nasty gram in my mailbox here from someone I have never met, never even looked up, and up until the moment I opened the mail didn't even know existed. I wonder what kind of person it takes to write such attacks. I don't claim to be a beauty queen, nor do I busy myself everyday with attempting to gain everyone's approval. I am me. Some might see only an outer shell and not like it. That is certainly their prerogative. However, everyone's is different. Some will look beneath the surface and find a rare beauty. Whatever the case may be, as adults in a lifestyle that commands respect and honor what does it say about the person who is willing to just attack someone they find unappealing? Does it not contradict the very core of what we are supposed to be about?

4/16/2010 9:16:41 PM

It occurs to me that when the first two questions a Man asks when He contacts you is do you cam and how much money do you make that what i believe about the lifestyle and relationships has become a joke. The new motto seems to be to find a relationship you have to be the good looking and rich crowd.

3/15/2010 1:27:48 PM

I found a saying the other day that is so perfect. I am looking for the One Dominant Man that can't prove to me they aren't all alike. It's truly not much to ask for one person to be honest and REAL. Now i don't claim to be in raving beauty but i have a great heart and a great desire to submit I just need that one Man.

1/13/2010 2:21:39 PM

OMG!! Can anyone just be adult for a bit. I can't understand the whole "I chatted five minutes turn on your cam and take your clothes off" mentality. I was always taught that Dominants are supposed to be about control. I can have cyber sex with anyone that isn't submission. ~sighs~ It's just aggravating.

7/21/2009 6:36:34 PM

I have had some interesting experiences here on collarme to say the least. I will say this though I wont give up. I am not perfect. Yes I have problems but the person who says they don't is a liar.
I am a good person but yes i will admit I have al ot of education. If it never happens for me, then I guess it doesn't but i won't ever again apologize for bieng myself.

6/12/2009 2:51:50 PM

I need to be very clear about this i guess. I want a Master but i am a single mom. MY KIDS ARE NOT PART OF THE RELATIONSHIP IN ANY WAY.