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I've been into BDSM for almost 30 years. I've danced on both sides of the fence along the way. Here's why I describe myself the way I do. As a submissive I explored receiving sensations and play primarily from trusted dominants I had chemistry solid olidwith. Never was owned and certainly had plenty of berth to let myself be me. At the time, I felt naturally a free spirit, peace maker, care gilf ver, and led 2 lives. My general vanilla front and my kinky side.
As I approached 40 I decided to explore more my domme side. My circumstances at the time didn't allow me to feel free to create what I've been searching for what seems to be a long time. I'm not too. Wrapped up in labels? That doesn't mean I'm not serious about the lifestyle. I honor general vibes. I'm just in a space where I need to be my whole worldly willfull self. . While that has some traditional values and notions, it also comes with an open mind and self interested in how she lives the next chapters of her life.
I'm not one to settle. I have a fierce belief when we know we know. Because both people being their authentic selves should click or they clash.
Never married. No kids. Not many complications. I'm self confident. Relationally aware. Higher degreed. Self worthy. Reacts better to men that love women. Well traveled in USA..
Open to writing on and being written on.
Well traveled much of it solo sometimes with friends and family. Frequent places are TX & NYC. I could be Ellie or Dorthy or maybe even Amelia Earhart.
Looking for someone to llove life to the fullest which includes allot of fun and adventure and discovery for hopefully both of us. Enjoying each other's brains and bodies. That be guaranteed. Sins of the flesh.
I love meeting people and learning new things. I know I don't get along with everyone, but I can have fun with everyone because I'm not a twat. Meaning I love and respect all people. I do have healthy boundaries and strong visions of my future. Security. Emotionally and mentally. Life long bond material. It's hard to find whatever side of the fence were living. I must be with a kinky partner. |
