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SouthernSiren

SouthernMaster
Male Dominant, 42, Gulfport, Mississippi
Male Submissive, 19, sussex
Male Switch, 39, South Pasadena, California
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About SouthernSiren

Welcome to My little slice of Hell.
What did you expect? CS is not My idea of Heaven.

Updated 06-22-2022


You can call Me, Siren. If youre lucky, maybe Mistress. However I wouldnt get your hopes up with that in mind. Im here because I have friends here.

That Said - Heres what you should know.
- Im Married.
- I am Poly.
- Panromantic.
- Possibly seeking. Should the right match come along.

Before you Message Me, Read My F.A.Qs Journal!

Please feel free to message me. While I am not actively seeking, I never say never. I do - though- have standards. If you choose to type shorthand, I will not reply. If you message asking me to torture you as a pain slut or CBT, you will get politely declined. If you message me without respect, you will be deleted and blocked. Im not here to help you jerk off. Im not here to be your temporary Mistress because youre submissive only when youre horny. No, that doesnt work for Me.

A final bit of ination.
I prefer women, trans or sissies.


To The Submissive/Slave
1-31-2017



To the "submissive/slave" who decided that because I wasn't interested I was a fake and told me not to breed.
Thank you for reminding me of the Harsh reality that even if I wanted to have biological children, I can't because Cerebral Palsy won't allow me to do so.

To the (same) "submissive/slave" who said If I had Cerebral Palsy I couldn't be a Domme. That I wouldn't be able to move or speak - from your experience.
You only know what you know from your tiny little bubble of existence. You don't know anything about what I am or am not capable of. Yes, CP makes my life difficult but not impossible to live. Not all cases of CP are the same, just like all people are not the same.


I am capable of far more than you will ever have the opportunity to know. Just because I'm not interested doesn't make me a fake or a liar. I am exactly who I say I am. I don't have to prove it to you. I honestly hope you find what you're looking for. I hope that chip on your shoulder doesn't prevent other Domme's from being interested.


Thank you, for reminding me just how strong I am.

F.A.Q
I keep getting asked the same questions over and over, so here's my Answers.

Q&A About My Husband:

? Q: "Are you really married?"
A: Yes. I'm really married.

? Q: "Does he know you're here?"
A: Yes! He knows. I keep no secrets from him.

? Q: "How long have you been married?"
A: Not that it's any of your business, BUT We've been happily married for 10 years.

? Q: "Is he Your sissy sub?"
A: -Laughs- Hell no! He's a Dominant.

? Q: "Does He mind you having a submissive?"
A: No. He doesn’t. He’s looking for one of his own.

Q&A About Me:

? Q: "You’re Bisexual and married to a Man?"
A: Actually, I’m Homoflexible and married to a man. I prefer women. I am rarely attracted to males, sexually. My husband happens to be one exception to the rule.

? Q: "Why don’t you have a picture of Yourself up?"
A: Because, I don’t see the need. I am more than skin-deep.  A picture of Myself should not be cause for you to message me.

? Q: "So, What do you look like?"
A: I’m just shy of 5ft. 100lbs. Green eyes and blonde hair.

Q&A About the Lifestyle:

? Q: "You’re Poly? How does that work?"
A: Quite simply. What’s Mine is Mine. What’s His is His and if the opportunity presents itself I suppose we’d share.

? Q: "Panromantic?"
A: A person who is romantically attracted to others but is not limited by the other's sex or gender. Similar to biromantic. Panromantics will tend to feel that their partner's gender does little to define their relationship.  Not to be confused with “Pansexual”.

? Q: "How did you get into the Lifestyle?"
A: My husband has 25+ years and got me interested. 

? Q: "How long have you been a Dominant/Mistress/Mommy?"
A: 7 years. Now, as far as hands-on experience; far less. Given that most I end up with don't understand the Poly dynamic and have little patience with Me because I'm physically disabled.
? Q: "Will you take me as your submissive/slave?"
A: If this is your very first question, no. I don’t know you well enough to make an informed decision.

? Q: "Are You seeking?"
A: No. I am not. But I never say never.

? Q: "What are You seeking?"
A: Ultimately, a partner, a companion, a lover, a friend, a slut, a fuck toy. A (sissy)wife. A submissive who understands that 24/7 is not so much a physical manifestation as a mind-set. In the end, a lifetime relationship.

? Q: "Would you consider me?"
A: Anything is possible. Message me and let’s get to know one another.

? Q: "Will You fuck my ass, Mistress?"
A: First, I’m not your Mistress. I don’t know you, so… No.

Q&A Random:

? Q: "How R U?/HRU?"
A: Nope, won’t be answering you. If you cannot respect this conversation enough to type out your words, I won’t be replying.

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