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Male Switch, 39, South Pasadena, California
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About SouthernDom
I'm new to the Groton/New London and recently returned to Collar Space after being away from it for a while. I was on the site a while back, when it was still Collarme.com.
I'm not new to BDSM though. I've been involved in the BDSM lifestyle for the past 15 years throughout the U.S. and overseas. I'm in the Navy so I have moved around a lot. I've enjoyed living overseas, but it's nice to be able to be back stateside where the lifestyle is more accessible. For some background on me... My name is Steve and I’m originally from the Texas. I moved to Connecticut in November after 4 years overseas.
I'm 5’11 and approximately 200 pounds with short brown hair and light blue eyes. I enjoy the mental aspects of BDSM. I love eye contact during a scene. Or grabbing a handful of a girls hair to turn her eyes to mine, or slapping her across the cheek to get her to refocus on my eyes. I feel like you can tell everything about a person in intense moments like that by looking into their eyes. Not being allowed to look away or close your eyes doesn’t give you anywhere to hide. I also enjoy rough sex, giving pain, leaving marks, verbal and physical humiliation and degradation, rape roleplay, orgasm control, a hand on the throat, knife play and too many more to list here. But I also want to take care of the girl that I am with. I like to play with the edgier aspects of BDSM, but I also feel like if you are going to play that way then you also need to understand that the slave that you are with needs to be taken care of. I’m looking for a girl that is open minded, sexually adventurous and fun. I want a girl that is deeply submissive yet can stand on her own if I’m not around. My job involves a lot of travel and me being gone for extended periods of time. I’m looking for a deeply submissive with slave tendencies or a slave. I’m also open to male or female friends as well.
Write back and ask me anything on your mind.
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I'm stationed in Bahrain for the next 9 months or so, but found out I'll be going to Crete for the year following that. Afterwards? Who knows. |
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Am I the only one that is annoyed by how many Financial Dommes are on this site. I generally only look at female profiles. Are Financial Doms as frequent as their female counter parts?
Most of them seem like they don't have anything to really offer except being cute and rude.
Hopefully the people writing them wise up so these spoiled little princesses will have to get a job sometime soon. |
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It's been a while since I've made a journal entry. I'm settling into Bahrain and already talking to about where to go for my next job.
I've got the opportunity to go to Japan (near Tokyo), Crete (Off the Coast of Greece) or Italy. All three sound like good jobs and I'm not sure where to go given the option.
Any thoughts? |
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I just got back to the gym today after not going for a while. It feels good to get back into the habit of going, but I think I hit the gym too hard today, because my back feels like the gym hit me back. |
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Damn you jet lag...Damn you to hell. I didn't get any sleep last night and so far I got two hours of sleep tonight and can't get back to bed.
I heard it'll take at least a week and a half to get my sleep schedule lined out.
My jet lag has led to a lot of late night internet surfing. |
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I'm in Stuttgart, Germany now.
I left Houston, Texas at 4:00 pm on the 21st and arrived in Germany at 11:00 am on the 22nd. I'm still jet lagged, but happy to be here.
I'm hoping to make a lot of new friends in the lifestyle here.
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I've checked out of the ship and started my leave period. I'm on vacation Las Vegas for a few days before heading home to Texas then on Stuttgart, Germany. |
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I just got back in today after about seven weeks of traveling for work, with only a few days on dry land. Unfortunately I can only check collar me when I'm in. So if you wrote me and I didn't respond, I'll get back to you shortly. |
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I'm going out of town for work tomorrow. I'll be away from my account for 10 to 14 days. Feel free to leave a message and I'll get back to you as soon as I can.
Thanks. |
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I talked to my detailer and she put me in for orders to Stuttgart, Germany. If everything works out I should be there early next year. I 'm excited because there are so many great places within a few hundred miles of where I will be working. I'm also starting to look for friends in the area. so if you're in the area drop me a line.
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Everything is still up in the air now. I'm working in Washington State currently, but I'm scheduled to transfer in March...I just don't know where yet. I'm supposed to make a phone call on the 9th and find out my options. When the 9th rolls around I could end up going pretty much anywhere.
So I guess we'll see what happens on the 9th. |
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I'm getting ready to go to Paradise Unbound, it's a great week long kinky camp out where you can completely immerse yourself in a group of like minded people.
So far I'm planning on being there Wednesday through Sunday.
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I'm getting ready to head out of town for work again. I'll be in and out for the next few months and because of the nature of my job when I'm out I can't check this account.
If you write me, I'll get back to you when I'm back...it just might take a few weeks.
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I'm getting ready to go out of town for work. Those of you that know me know what that means.
If you write me I won't be able to write back for a few weeks. Send your messages anyway and I'll reply when I get back. I won't have access to collar me while I'm away.
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It's been a while since I've made a journal entry. I was in a wreck earlier in the month and broke my thumb, two days ago i went and got the permanent cast removed and replaced with one that I can take off and on.
Aside from that, I'm doing ok. Luckily, it was my right thumb that I broke and I'm left handed.
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I just wanted to post a message letting everyone know that I'll be out of town for work over the next two months and will have very limited access to sites like collarme.com.
I'll be back but it's part of life...the real world always seems to get in the way of our fun.
Those that have read my profile can do the math as to why I won't be able to access collarme and other lifestyle related sites.
I'll be back though so feel free to message me. |
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I'm looking forward to Paradise Unbound this week. I'm on leave now and debating on wether I want to go take my PT test tomorrow or wait and do the make up test on Wednesday. But after a week of being on leave and all hedonistic I might do quiet so well on the test so we'll see how I feel tomorrow.
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It's been a? long week at work and I'm definitely ready for this weekend. I'm looking forward to seeing a lot of you at the Spot tonight. I've had duty for the last two weekends so I wasn't able to head by the club.
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Here's something that I don't get...People Refering to Themselves in the Third Person!!!!
WTF? How lame and self important do you have to be that you don't feel like you can say I or me?
It just comes off as ridiculous. whatever to each their own I guess.
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I went to a whip enthusiast meeting last Saturday at the club in Seattle and got a chance to throw a single tail for the first time. I had ordered one the week before so it was nice to get a feel for one before mine arrives.
I'm much more excited about it's arrival now which is about 5 to six weeks away.
Anyone interested in single tails and in the arrea should check out the meeting.? It was full of great people willing to share their advice and knowledge.
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I've come to the conclusion that I don't understand people.
People say that they want this lifestyle and that they need it. going through all the trouble to make plans and then backing out at the last minute.
If your intention isn't to meet then why would you even go through the effort of talking to someone, getting to know them, making plans to meet then backing out?
Is anyone for real out there?
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I'm going out of town for work on June 7th and will be out of town and unable to check my collar me account until early July.? Leave a message and I'll get back to you when I get back.
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On the road to Bremerton, Wa. with a stop by Nashville. I'll be at the club tonight if anyone's in the area. After that it's a 37 hour drive to Bremerton starting early Sunday.
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I'm leaving tomorrow for House Hunting Leave to get ready to move to Washington.
I'll be there from January Second and return on the 10th.
If anyone wants to reach me I'll have my cell phone on me while I'm there.
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Happy Thanksgiving everyone. I hope that you enjoy the time off with your friends and family.
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Looking forward to the auction night. Should be a lot of fun and there's supposed to be a huge crowd there tonight.
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Well last night was my first Valentine's Day with Deena. It went really well. she got me a great card and made dinner for us.
I got her a card, some candy that she liked, chocolate covered strawberries and perfume.
We had a lot of fun together. It's the first time in a while that I've been seeing someone on Valentine's day.
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Work is still a pain I feel like I've been running on a treadmill set on it's fastest speed and that I'm barely keeping my feet under me.
But it's ok I can get by. I'm looking forward to picking Deena up from the airport on Friday night. she'll be here for a week. Home visiting from school.
Speaking of...I need to stop by Home Depot.
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Work has been crazy lately. I'll be happy when things slow down a bit. I have to get on the road tomorrow ro go to Bristol for a retirement ceremony Friday afternoon, then get back and go handle a media event on Saturday.
Oh well at least when you are swamped it makes the time go by quickly.
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Someone solved a rubix cube in 11.9 seconds. I had one of those for years and i don't think I ever solved it.
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I'm heading home for Christmas leave to be with my family back in Texas.
I'm looking forward to seeing my Mom, Dad, sisters, and other family members. This will be the first time in three years that I will be able to be home for both Christmas and Thanksgiving.
So I won't be around collar me for about for about 8 days starting on the morning of the the 22nd.
If you want to talk and have my number give me a call.
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Why is it everytime I meet someone and they seem sincere they always seem to flake out? Why is it so hard to find someone that doesn't just see this as a game?
It seems to get harder and harder to bounce back from the lastest let down.
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