SoulShine

Am I the Dom for you? Am I am what you have been looking for? Patient yet strong, spontaneous yet in control, funny yet serious, bright and thoughtful and very open-minded. A Dom that knows that the mental part of D/s is more important than the physical, not into giving pain for pain sake, only as part of our erotic play.

Other things...professional, creative, fun-loving, loves to joke, quick-witted, ironic & sarcastic sense of humor, music lover, biking and hiking, garden, ....

I am a polite person as I see that as independent of me being a Dom and I expect the same in anyone that corresponds with me.

If I email you and don't hear back from you I will not chase you. Since I am respectful, I expect the same in return. Those that are not respectful of everyones time and efforts here are not worth my time.

What I am looking for.. A submissive that is not a door mat; someone that has her own thoughts, and is not afraid to express them. Someone who needs a Dominant man in her life knowing that it only helps to complete herself. Someone that knows how to look desirable, knowing that it pleases me. Someone who may be quite strong and in control of other parts of her life, yet yearns to be submissive to a Dom.

I am married and prefer someone in a similiar situation, that is discreet and secure in their lives. Someone that is NOT looking for me to rescue them from their current situation.

Email and messages can both be used so we can get to know each other before a r/t meeting. I am not looking for cyber play or erotic email exchanges! If you have read this far, and are interested, please send me an email!! Don't wait in the hopes that I am going to find you, as our paths may not cross again!

Good luck to you!!