I have always had fantasies of submission. The awakening of my sexual feelings was all tied up (pun intended) with imaginings of bondage, being dominated, and submissive acts. I have never been in a relationship where the sexual side was not "vanilla". I think I desire a D/s relationship. (At least, i am very interested in the idea.) I want to be submissive, but no one's slave. I am a very independent and assertive person. But, I seem to be a "sexual submissive" from what I have read, and from the online conversations of which I have been a part.
I would enjoy online discourse with Dominants (or subs) who could help me learn even more about D/s.
I enjoy photography, movies, travel, and coffee. Lots of caffeine makes the world go 'round. (Even though i know it's not good for me)
I am sure that I will be adding to this profile in the days to follow... (see journal for more recent musings...)
3/20/2014 3:08:30 AM
Brian is the One whom I now call Sir. He is demanding, yet kind -- dominant, yet a gentleman.
3/17/2014 3:51:37 AM
“When a woman submits to a man, it’s the most precious gift she can give. Herself. Unreservedly. The man has to respect and honor that gift above all else. Even if he respects nothing else in the world, he must respect the woman in his care. It’s his sworn duty to protect, honor and cherish his submissive. To take care of her and provide a safe haven. Someone who would put his own needs above his woman’s is no man.” Maya Banks
5/5/2013 10:44:28 PM
I never really went back and updated my profile. (But, wouldn't it be a shame? I like what it says very much.)
Some things stated there still apply -- others do not.
7/9/2012 9:04:27 PM
I read something on a profile that I liked:
"Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different."
I think that sums things up very nicely.
7/21/2011 5:57:59 AM
'Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.'
- t. s. eliot
1/31/2011 3:47:27 AM
Still no updated profile...guess that makes me a bit more of a mystery.
9/11/2009 6:43:42 PM
Ok...so it's been several years -- and I still haven't added to, or updated, my profile. I'll work on that, as it doesn't say much about me at present.
Maya Banks