I am a bisexual submissive woman. I have some limited experiences as a sub that have been wonderful. I have been seriously interested in aspects of bdsm for about 10 or 12 years. Although, I feel i have been submissive my whole life. I have attended play parties (soft and hard) and informational meetings as an observer at a bdsm club over a few years.

I am looking for a Dominant Man or Woman or Couple to slowly develop a relationship with.

I prefer someone that has educated him/herself thru experience, reading, writing, discussing, attending, organizing, presenting ... Someone that believes they constantly evolve. Your interest and the things you have done and are doing in the "lifestyle" interest me as much as your skill level, your body type, and your age.

Please do not waste my time if you are a male just trying to meet women on this site to date. I am educated, have a life, a kid at home, and value my free time.

I enjoy going to movies, theater/plays, listening to various type of music, walks on the beach, time alone, family time, bbq, eating out, camping, travel, shopping, playing poker, riding motorcycles, spending time with friends to name a few things. I am multifaceted, safe, sane, emotionally and financially stable. I do realize that I have much to learn and much to offer and hope to find a mentor or two, some friends, and ultimately a compatable partner. I do not want to move in with anyone or have anyone move in with me.