SophrosynesHouse

I realize that Poly relationships are not for everyone. i myself had to take sometime to consider if this is truly what i wanted and desired. i knew Sir before He created His polyfidelity household and to be honest, He was the most compassionate caring dominant i have ever met. i trusted Him to take me down the path of polyfidelity and to entrust that He truly knew what was best for me and for the household.

Over two years later i realize that not only am i the happiest i have ever been, it has made me a stronger more "confident" woman to this day. You may wonder what being in a polyfidelity relationship has to do with building one's self image. What Sir does for you, well for us is that he removes all of the burdens of paying bills, car payments, phone payments and the like. He provides us with a house to live in, private space to our own and a "home" not just a house to live in.

Polyfidelity can be a confusing and scary thing to some people as you are limiting your sexual and relationship traits to the people inside of the "family" that you join. Sir does his best to choose house members that will co-exist and to ensure that everyone will be happy in the end. He has chosen polyfidelity due to the fact that he does not want us to contract any S.T.D.'s or other diseases. For us in the house sex is not daily, nor weekly it is more about passion, trust and compassion than about sex in His house.

Polyfidelity removes the stigma of searching for additional partners and again, worrying about STD's and/or sexual conquests. Sir does provide us with a vast variety of sexual toys (over time each woman get's her own set) and he ensures our protection not only physical but mental and emotional as well.

Do not be afraid of polyfidelity... Try to embrace it. We are all here to help support Sir's wishes and to support any new submissives that arrive into our house. Sir is selective and that is a good thing as a polyfidelity relationship needs to be a "perfect fit"... and we all entrust Sir that he knows whats best.

a.t.s.

So here are some things to consider about Sir's household:

 What It IS 

• It is... An exciting and amazing place to live…

All members in His house live full lives under his roof. We all enjoy “family” movie nights inside of our house "movie theatre". In addition, we have family events like board game nights, karaoke, trip's local restaurants, trips, museums, concerts, shows and lots of other exciting and adventurous times.

• It is... An amazing place to learn about yourself...

Sir gives all of us attention and teaches us discipline and how to release our inner submissives. It is about wanting to progress one's self and reflecting on what makes each of us happy. In turn Sir provides us with rules to live by and removes a lot of the social and outside pressures that we normally would face.

• It is... Full of laughter and adventure…

We all know how to laugh, enjoy time together & embrace the culture.

• It is... A fully equipped center for BDSM training...

Sir's household is designed to flourish the submissive mindset. Everything for specific living arrangements through chores and duties have all been carefully planned out for the specific need of training a good submissive.

• It is... the MOST rewarding feeling I have ever had...

Growing up i have always wanted to participate in the D/s culture and lifestyle. With little experience i approached Sir and He has taught me so many things about not only the lifestyle but myself as well. Sir is truly a compassionate, caring and devoted man to his family... i feel "blessed" to be apart of it and only want to share this gift

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 What the Household ISN'T 

• Our House Is Not... A kinky sex orgy…

A lot of people now-a-days seem to think that BDSM and D/s is about sex and the . I will be HAPPY to announce that in Sir's house sex is not an active thing daily. This household was created to truly develop submissives and their true inner desires and devotions. All because you read a fetish novel does not make you a submissive. In fact, all of the "little girls" who think that they are "submissives" and that they are "devoted" don't really have the right to use those words... i apologize as it does get under my skin...

but i digress... to be honest, there isn’t any sexual side to a BDSM relationship in the broadest of terms... Bondage Domination Sadism Masochistic… yeah I don't see anything about sex.

Recently there has been an influx of applications and after review there is a lot of people who want to “run away” and join a house to “escape”… Sir's house is not an escape… It is a choice that you make...

Moving On...

• Our House is Not... a “free” ride

Sir's house members all work “normal” jobs. He does have a few sources of income that do directly come from some members of the household (naked car wash Thursdays, just kidding…) However, all in all, financially the house supports itself from its members and with Sir's assistance. If you are considered to move in with us please have a trade, occupation or vocation that can secure you a position near us
 

• Our House is Not... "OPEN"

After careful consideration from Sir... He has decided to not permit an "open" style of relationship inside of the household. All of us house members are to be treated as family and the like. People requesting or seeking an "open poly" relationship will not find it with Sir. All of us are STD tested and clean and we chose to participate in this closed polygamous forum to protect us and our sisters, as well as fellow house members.

• Our House is Not... a "Joke"

We all take the lifestyle here very seriously and have committed to a life of service, passion and dedication to Sir and one's self exploration. We do have a charter that we abide by, Sir pays all of the bills from our house account, we have a "family" phone plan as well as a car insurance option, etc... We truly exist in a polyamorous (closed) atmosphere and enjoy it very much. Please review what Sir is seeking to better understand the open positions inside of our household.

Thank you all for taking the time to read this... ATS