sommer559

Male Dominant, 47, In the south

Female Submissive, 18, Brentwood, Tennessee

Male Dominant, 58, Santa Ana, California

Wow! What a difference a month makes. I have met so many wonderful people, and had some great experienced. last night was my third visit to a local BDSM club, and my second public flogging scene. Thanks LdBeast and Dlune for helping me learn and grow! I know I am still learning, but in helping a? friend of mine enter getstarted in her ALT life, i am realizing how much I know. It is said that the best way to reinforce what you know is to teach others, and I am doing just that. The experiences may not always be perfect, but each one is a learning experience and not to be feared or regretted. I am looking foward to more. an I still looking for that "right one" yes possibly, if he ever comes along I will be overjoyed, but I think right now I am happy whith where I am and who I have in my life.

The past few days have been a good learning experience. I had lost sight of what the local community had to offer. Last night I had the pleasure of meeting a local Dom who is a big part of the local scene and we were discussing who I have met and why i am not more involved, among many other topics. The only reason was simply my day to day life had not really allowed me to. Things are settling enough now that I am able to . It will be good to connect again with the local people I have met and to have that support. It will also be good to see where this meeting leads to as well. One thing he said to me that made me laugh is, to ask people on line, especially young full of them selves Dominants, what they think of the local community. If they say that they are the be all end of of the world - RUN FOR THE HILLS.? ha ha ha Smiles! ~Sommer

I have learned, with out the right person, this life style not for me. I am not here begging any one to dominate me, I want the right one. Seriously doubting I am going to find Him here. Too many people just out for games and to get laid, or get off in general. Not saying everyone, just tired of the BS and guilt that people throw on me for not connecting. Insults and blame, whats the point? People if it is not right , its just not right and I am not going to partner, sub or switch with any one that isn't. Y/you shouldn't either. It taints the whole experience when you do. Just my thoughts, ~Sommer.

A Funny. . . How to spank a sub First step catch her. Second step hold on to her. Third step while holding on to her. Try to get to your cuffs/rope/ whatever you can get your hands on. Fourth step carry her to the bed/cross/whatevers handy. Fifth step stop and try to catch your breath. (while still trying to hold on to her) Sixth step catch her again. Seventh step threaten her with bodily harm if she doesn't stand still. Eighth step catch her again. Ninth step threaten to gag her if she doesnt stop laughing. Tenth step drag her back to the bed/cross/whatever is handy. Eleventh step secure her wiggling body. Twelfth step take a nap. Thirteenth step choose your paddle/ crop/ flogger/ whatever is handy. Fourteenth step wake her up. Fifteenth step gag her to stop the giggling. Sixteenth step repeatedly smack her ass till she quits shaking with laughter. Seventeenth step continue spanking till she starts to moan. Eighteenth step give up. No matter what you do you know she's enjoying the hell out of it. This isn't punishment, it's her way of making you please her..

Male Dominant, 65, Washington, Washington D.C.

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Male Dominant, 61, Fairfax, Virginia

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