Collarspace.com

I am looking for a discrete play partner or two. I am in Maine several months each year with my husband, who is no longer interested in bdsm. I am probably a medium-level player; I need some pain but am not a hardcore masochist. I greatly enjoy sexual play, bondage, and obedience. Unfortunately, I am tongue-tied, so my oral service to women is compromised. I am looking for friendship and play rather than a romantic relationship. Friendship without play is nice, too. I would like to find someone in my general age range. Perhaps it is narrow-minded of me, but my lower age limit is 40.
8/31/2010 7:44:58 PM
Apparently, I was foolish in assuming that by stating that I was looking for women or couples, single men would know I wasn't interested. I further assumed that listing myself as a submissive would indicate that I was not interested in topping anyone. Both assumptions appear to be wrong, since the only messages I have received have been from single men, about half of them doms and the other half subs hoping I would suddenly decide oh, damn, I'm actually a domme. I have no interest whatsoever in topping anyone. I realize that dommes are hard to find, but it's not my problem. I wish you well in your search, but don't waste my time or yours in trying to convince me I'd really like being your Mistress. I wouldn't. I do like playing with male doms but because of issues in my life, I am not interested in any kind of relationship with men, unless their partners are part of the scene.