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someonetolove

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Male Switch, 43, Omaha, Nebraska
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someonetolove - Female Submissive, Newark California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About someonetolove

"Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still."



PLEASE READ THIS FIRST.
Yes, I am a submissive but the does not mean you can speak to me in any other way than a respectful way. I am not your submissive so please understand that sending me a message that is degrading or hurtful is not tolerated.


I am now living in the Newark, Ca area.


I have several things marked on "Actively" looking for some of these are just looking for friends, so please ask.


This profile is ever evolving into what I want, need and crave in my life. So there is a possibility you might read it today and in a couple of days it will change, but there are several things that will never change. Here they are and then I will explain more.

**I am real

**I am a curvy woman who is a shrinking bbw

**I am very self confident and do not play games and no drama.

**I want a man who will see me for me, not change me, but help me be grow

**I love to smile and cook (yes a very good cook)

**I believe in loving more than one at a time.

**I am passionate about sex. Now the evolving part of me.

**I am a pain slut.

**I am a masochist.

**I love paddles, canes, hands......I love marks....biting and so on.

I am submissive by nature and right now I want to learn more about what I crave, need, want and desire. I dream at night about someone taking me against my will, testing my limits, making me theirs in every way. I dream at night about losing control, not having to explain anything I do...

What I am looking for in someone:

**Someone who is my friend first and for most. I cannot trust someone who is not.

**Someone who is passionate about life and what they do for a living.

**Someone who can make me laugh and smile.

**Someone who knows how to push my buttons and make me feel safe in the process.

**I like men who are between 35 and 58.

**I like men who are over 5'8.

**Someone who is passionate about sex and makes a woman scream.

I am not looking for someone to take over my life just in but enhance it in many ways. Thank you for taking the time to read what I have written. Have a wonderful day. Just a heads up I have lost a lot of weight and getting my body back in shape.

I am not looking to relocate to another state or have no desire to be with a couple.

Please do not lead me on and then disappear, I am really tied of it and will not stand for it anymore. Be true, be honest and if I am someone you really want to know me more then lets try.

"Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still."

So I guess when I a guy kisses you goodbye after first meeting and saying he will see you again, but then again you never hear from him again....mean....no you will not see him again.  Oh well, lessoned learned....on to the next .  LOL

All i ask for is for you to love and respect me for me. I am not a sexy woman, I am who I am. I have years of life under my belt and it shows, but I am loving, kind, funny and sexy in my own right.

 

I really don't ask much.

Why is it so hard to find someone who wants to be with me.  

Check my profile I am someone who is real and tells it like it is.  

I don't ask much out of life. I am simple and know what I want.

I am so tired of men sending message and talking and then just disappearing.....gets so frustrating... so why continue on here....give me a reason??????

 

So I guess we will see.....my time here might be over....5 years.....

 

sigh

 

 

Why is it when you think you have met someone that you can trust to take you to a point that you need, want and desire they do not follow up with aftercare. I am so tired of it, that sometimes I am ready to give this all up. You beat me, whip me, make me cry but then nothing from you. Why??
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