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Male Switch, 35
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About soleheeling2
When it comes to play, I'm a fetishist with a penchant for discipline and percussion play. When it comes to real life, I'm a whole lot of other things. And yes, the two - real life and BDSM - are different for me. I keep them separate. For instance, I don't think women are worthless sex objects. But if you want to be treated like one behind close doors, I'm probably your kind of guy.
I'm also your kind of guy if you're into indie music, edgy novels and Pixar movies.
My work consumes my life. Thankfully I love what I do, so I don't complain. I also enjoy what I do to cut loose on my down time, like keeping someone bound and helpless while I torture them... Hey, some people golf, and that's okay too.
Long story short, I'm a confident man who doesn't take himself too seriously. I'm not a bully, nor am I domineering in daily life. I'm often described as an intellectual - which is odd given my burly physique - but makes sense considering what I do for a living. What I do for a living is tell people what I want then watch them work hard to make it happen. Yes, it's fun. But it's also far from stable and that's taught me to embrace discipline despite my laid-back nature.
I'm eager to get back to the days when vanilla sex was the exception not the norm. When doing it missionary style is what you do to take a break from the whips and the leather.
And no, I'm not a switch. At least not usually, but if you look smokin' hot in thigh highs and know what to do with a whip, we can talk. But realistically, that's probably all we'll do. And if you wear thigh-highs anywhere else other than the bedroom or a fetish event, please don't message me... (Stylish over-the-knee is okay though!)
Don't ever call me "Sir" in public, but say "Yes Sir, thank you Sir, and may I please have another, Sir" in private and I'll make you purr every time...
I travel a lot. Too much sometimes. If we're in a relationship, you're going to have to get used to my being gone about 25% of the time. But if you like your "alone time" I might be your man. But you can also come with, if you like traveling.
Outside of casual play, I'm not into poly. What that means is, if you want to get smacked around my someone else every now and then, that's probably okay. I could probably use the break. Topping is hard work.
If you're into Gorean, Renaissance fairs, or too heavily into Goth and vampirism, I'm SO not your man. And if you call yourself a "slave" I'm probably not your man either. Unless you have a sense of humour about it. In fact, forget, "princess by day, slut by night", if you enjoy having your brains fucked out of your skull while you let loose a torrent of painful tears but can accompany me to a black-tie event without anyone suspecting - then I'm most definitely your man... |
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