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About Solamon
Don't call me "Miss" or "Mistress".
Due to the amount of messages I receive, here is a disclaimer:
I am not interested in sissies, forced sissification, or feminisation.
I am an active and assertive genuine dominant lady, more likely to be found in a wetsuit than a catsuit. I have been told many times that I have a joie de vivre and live much of my life out of the bedroom - if that is all you are looking for, move along now.
I'll say that again, for those that may have sight issues - if all that you are looking for is kinky or fantasy sex, move along now.
First and foremost, know this: I do not accept submissives or slaves on an online basis. Whilst beauty is very much in the eye of the beholder, real life chemistry and compatibility is of great importance. I want to know the person behind the profile, and will expect a meeting if we get on well. Not a session, a meeting.
I am much more interested in the subtleties of power exchange than blatant displays - you're more likely to get a warning look than a boot on the face. Just don't mistake that for a sign of weakness.
Those living nearby will be considered first, followed by those further afield that are willing to travel. Those outside of the UK or just with "UK" set as their location should expect to be ignored or politely refused. Yes, politely. Being dominant doesn't mean I'm rude. I have manners and I'm not afraid to use them. Detailing your closest town or city does not mean that you will be lynched, but you may well get a warmer response.
Finally, I operate a three strike policy in all walks of life.
I have photos and a webcam to prove I am genuine, and insist on the "safecall" protocol when arranging meetings. References are available also.
More to come as it develops...
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What do I want?
I want to be your all-consuming thought, your reason for getting up, your reason for coming home, the reason for the flutter in your chest and the aching in your loins.
What do I want?
I want to be adored. I want to be your first thought, your last thought, the reason for your daydream, for the smile on your face. I want to see it in your eyes, hear it in your sigh, and feel it in your touch.
What do I want?
I want to take you, body, mind and soul. I want to use you, for my own purpose and pleasure. I want to push you aside and watch you come crawling back, begging for more.
What do I want?
I want to dress you up, strip you off, pull you up, tie you down. I want to cage you, I want to torment you. I want to open the door and throw you out. I want to let you go, knowing you'll have to come back.
What do I want?
I want the fantasy. I want the reality. I want the scenes, and I want "behind the scenes". I want it to be there when we're watching a film, at a restaurant, when you're taking me shopping. I want you to feel me inside you, feel my hand on the back of your neck, feel my thoughts inside your head.
What do I want?
I want it all. |
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House mates wanted for kink-friendly house share in Oxfordshire. Any ages, genders or persuasions considered, but must be sane and solvent. References required. Direct any questions or applications to me. |
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One of my closest friends has confided to me that he thinks he is bisexual, but doesn't know how to take things further. We discussed going to a club of some kind, but he wants his first time to be more than a frantic, after-club-fuck.
So I'm looking for volunteers. You would be well rewarded, and well looked after.
Apply within... |
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I am definitely in a "meet and treat" mood at the moment. If we're exchanging messages, do be prepared to meet up in real life. I'm not interested in online only.
Meeting up doesn't mean I will do anything other than chat and spend some time getting to know you. Pixels on a screen is all well and good, but I want more than that.
Gold stars to all the boys and girls who sent in suggestions for our day out. What fun! |
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Personally, the D/s dynamic isn't just about finding someone who will always say yes, and certainly not someone whose stock response is "I don't mind" or "whatever you want". A level of compliance is, of course, very appealing, but there are certain scenarios where having an opinion and the ability to think for oneself is a valuable skill.
For example, if I have a day off (these are quite rare) and want to do something fun and interesting, then I want you to come up with ideas and suggestions, or even plan the whole damn day, rather than make it more hard work by repeatedly saying "I don't mind/whatever you want".
So, here's a little challenge:
We have one day, either in Oxford, where you live or elsewhere, and you must come up with a plan for the day - multiple plans are acceptable. There is enough information on my profile to start pulling something together, so tell me what it is... |
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It never ceases to amaze me what people will share with people they've never met, or the pictures they'll post on the internet.
Having said that, I adore photography, and taking pictures of beautiful men and women (eye of the beholder and all that) is something that that I thoroughly enjoy and intend to continue it for as long as possible. When shooting TFP/TFCD then the pictures they have of the shoot are those to use as they wish, but given the subject matter that myself and my fellow photographers often deal with, I wouldn't expect to see them being posted on publicly accessible areas of the internet. Except with a signed consent form.
However, that has given rise to a very interesting photo shoot idea... one that I may need volunteers for...
Just a thought. |
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It's the simple things in life...
Shirt shopping has been narrowed down to Charles Tyrwhitt and Austin Reed - both have sales on now! |
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What an interesting few days. Several text and phone conversations with certain members on here, promising so far, but the real test is the first meeting... |
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I finally understand what Right Said Fred were referring to in the song "I'm too sexy for my shirt" - all the training is paying off and, getting changed for work earlier, my upper arms nearly ripped my shirt!
Time for a trip to Charles Tyrwhitt or Jermyn Street for some beautiful shirts that fit! Mmm. Who wants to take me shopping? |
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