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| Dear visitor,
Submissive (and/or slave) is a word that I have never felt described by but nevertheless it is still a large part of who I am, how else am I ever going to function with the dominant women that I am attracted to…
It is so easy to say that a woman that knows what she wants is attractive but it took me sometime to realize that if I want someone that takes charge I also have to be ready to follow
To come with a long list of kinky interests as a submissive is to me a contradiction as the central thing for me is that it is the way she wants it.
There is a harmony in knowing that everything is just the way the Lady of the house wants it and how many couples can truly say that they know their partner is pleased ?
Of course there are a lot of sides outside the D/s side as well in life that has to match, I have a degree in Economics and have also studied engineering for while, after leaving high school promissing myself never to set foot in any sort of educational institution I discovered that education can be fun when you get to the University!
Why am I on this site?
To learn to see more of the BDSM world and of course like so many others I want to find
that special one.
As I look at profiles in here I often find myself drawn to the ladies that have a clear vision of what they want, that often describes a mans place as that of the slave and although I have never seen myself as extreme I must admit that there is something very appealing to me in the harmony of clear roles and no grey areas, nothing open to interpretation...
A favourite quote:
For me the setting for domination and submission is comparable to a garden, seeing the Mistress as the gardener and the slave as a plant. Picture a rose bush in a lovely garden... it has been planted for one purpose only - to please the owner of the garden and thus the owner of the rose. It is planted and starts to grow - but only the gardeners caring hand will make it achieve the full blossom and beauty that it is capable of. This "growing into the right direction" does mean that sometimes some force has to be applied by the gardener, to direct the rosebush into the direction the owner wants it to grow ... either be tying it up or by cutting away any branches that do not fit into the picture. On the other hand all that may only be done to a degree that enhances the beauty and character of the plant. Never must a bond be too firm to not allow the juices to flow, never must be cut away too much to leave the plant too weak.
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| Age: 25 |
| Hampshire,
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