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| Hiya,
I'm Ashley, and I'm relatively new to the lifestyle. I am more often submissive with some little tendencies, and really not inclined to a serious 24/7 Master/slave dynamic (that seems to be a very popular lifestyle choice around here, and while I respect it, it isn't a choice I'm going to make for myself). I can be a bit of a switch in certain situations, but I'm just starting to explore that side of me. I'm at a place in my submission where I do need a good bit of aftercare and hard limits that may be pushed lightly but ultimately respected, and am happy to provide the same for a partner as well.
I cannot relocate at this point in time. I bounce back and forth between living in Ohio and living in Virginia. Long distance is therefore clearly a possibility but I don't want for that to be totally permanent.
I am not looking for online relationships or hook-ups. I want a connection and that doesn't have to mean a long-term relationship, but it can't be just about sex either. If we can't talk and do normal vanilla stuff too then it isn't going to work out.
I can be a sarcastic little pain in the ass or the sweetest person you'll meet depending on how you choose to present yourself. Be aware, you have been warned. Sarcastic is also my default setting. That's how I keep my guard up and myself out of dangerous situations, don't take it too personally.
I should probably go ahead and mention that if you're more than 5-10 years older than me you shouldn't waste your breath unless you're just being friendly. If you're in or below that age range don't get your panties in a bunch if I turn you down either. Check your entitlement, I don't have to automatically like you, that's not how the world works.
I have a low tolerance for bullshit. If you message me assuming I'll bow at your feet for no good reason other than that you're a dominant than I probably won't give you the time of day. I don't think that's entirely uncalled for considering some of the messages I've gotten from people.
I am first and foremost a human being and deserve the same respect you'd give someone you met in person without the background knowledge of my BDSM inclinations, as does every other person you message on here. Afford me that respect and you'll get it right back, refuse to do so and so will I.?
Anyway, I'm pretty friendly unless you come off as a total creep so shoot me a message or whatever and we can see where it goes. ;P
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