SoftMistress

I am looking for a submissive woman to be in a relationship with and somewhere down the road join me and my family in a 24/7 RT situation. I am married to a wonderful vanilla man who supports my lifestyle choices. The type of submissive woman that interests me is honest and able to open up and share her dreams and desires with me when we first meet. I expect loyalty, obediance, gracefulness, humility and a willingness to please. She should be caring and nurturing, kind and outgoing, feminine, tactful and playful. I am looking for a submissive woman who is also able to step up and run my home smoothly in the event that I am unable to do so. This does not mean I am interested in a switch because I am not. I am not super picky, but I like for things to be done in a certain way. I am willing to listen to other's ideas and suggestions because I am not bull headed enough to think my way is the only way, but there are reasons behind the way that I do things. I don't like to have to ask twice for something to be done.
I believe there is so much more to a BDSM relationship than just sex. I don't believe submissives are only to be used as sex toys when there is so much more to explore. I am very into the dynamics of a D/s relatioinship and TPE.
For some reason I have a lot of trouble with photos on this site, I am unable to send them with a message.