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Hello. Thanks for looking.
I've been actively seeking within bdsm circles for a few years now and have met some great people
and had some amazing experiences. I am currently single, and looking
for that ever elusive beast- a relationship that encompasses both
vanilla and bdsm interests.
Let me start with the 'everything else' category and share a little bit
about myself. If I don't click with someone this way, I'll never click
with them in a bdsm way. I'm American for starters, can't escape the
accent or the spelling, nor would I want to! I'm reasonably well
educated, and a licensed professional. My field doesn't require me to
be suited and booted however, so I'm generally 'casual normal' in my
day-to-day appearance, and I like it like that. I have no tattoos or
body modifications aside from my pierced ears.
Working in a creative field I'm pretty much interested in lots of
creative things- architecture, design, theater, films, books,
photography, painting, sculpture, music, food, etc. I consider myself a
bit of a 'foodie' and have had tumultuous relationships with
vegetarians before. If that's you, please think seriously about whether
you can handle knowing someone who will gleefully describe the joy of
cooking live crabs and picking the meat from their hot steaming
carcasses while licking their fingers.
I don't have pets, though in a few months a friend is moving in with
two cats. I don't smoke. I drink, but not loads, and I don't drink beer
as a random side note.
About my character, I guess that's a bit harder to pinpoint. I'm
complex. I'm a real person. I can be playful and silly and also serious
and passionate. I can be terribly stubborn from time to time. I'm
honest and pretty open about most things. My friends rely on me for my
loyalty but also for my ability to tell it like it is. I can be
outgoing but I can also be shy. I'm not afraid to speak my mind, but I
am almost never mean to people- I hate to be cliché, but mean people
suck.
Which leads on I guess to the bdsm part of who I am. I am sexually
submissive and I always have been. To me, this flows naturally out of
the 'right' relationship. I wouldn't say I have many fetishes- I'm not
drawn to the physical accoutrements as much as I am to the mental and
physical engagement (though saying that, I am fond of corsets). I have
a particular weakness for bondage, and specifically rope bondage. I
enjoy the freedom that comes from trusting someone enough to truly give
up control. I like playing with pain as well, but to me it is all
strongly linked to the mental aspects. I don't tend to like pain just
for the sake of pain (though saying that....).
Like many with a submissive nature, I am forever drawn to the intimate
satisfaction that comes from knowing you have pleased a partner. In
many ways I crave that acknowledgement. While I may push at boundaries
and frequently be playful, nothing will stop me deader in my tracks
than thinking I have crossed the line. I would say that I can
occasionally be a challenge. But my hope would be to find someone who
appreciates that quality and can challenge me back.
Now for the boring but important stuff. I am not generally looking for
anyone more than five years younger or ten years older than me. If you
are married or in an assumed monogamous relationship, please don't
contact me.
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