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| Well, i am at this again with a few new lessons under my belt. i am a submissive woman seeking a standard D/s relationship, a M/s relationship may be in the future if the cards turn out right, but not now!! i have considered a M/s relationship, but do not feel as i am in a spot to submit that fully to someone, and really, how can someone submit on that level without being in close proximity? as much as i want to just drop everything and meet everyone's commands, i simply can't, and that is not fair to either one of us, not saying that in the future i may be headed towards that path, but for the now and for the time being, i can only commit to being your sub--i also do not like that feeling as a "potential slave" of failing to meet a "potential Masters" commands, i want those sort of feelings off on the left side for now while i concentrate not on commands but on getting to know someone who i can see myself in a D/s relationship with. First of all, let me say this, if you are just looking for a sexual play partner, please pass me by--i am seeking a long term relationship with a Man who wants to be in control, in the bedoom and out of the bedroom. After a hectic dating life and a past marriage i can finally see what it is that i need in a relationship. i have firm beliefs on the traditional roles of Men and women, and find it sad i have to go to kinky sex website to put a dating profile up to find a Man who thinks like i do!! That being said, don't command me to Skype, Cam or Chat unless it is a good time for us both (i will do what i can to meet your times, but life is life)--on my last profile, i was "found out" by some locals therefore, i will not post any pictures of myself for privacy (black hair, green eyes, solid and sturdy build--i am not small woman, and happen to like my build, i do have boobs and hips so if you seek a zipper, i am not it) this does not mean i have a poor self-image, opposite in fact, i am more then happy to text you a few pictures and email pictures to you. also, keep in mind, just like everyone else, i have a cell phone, do i always have it with me? no, i do not, when it rings do i jump to get it? no, i do not--i realize this may change with a solid D/s relationship in the works. i have always been a submissive individual, have always been the sumissive half of the relationship and i like that way, that is where i am most comfortable. i do not want to be held responsible for decisions (most women don't, and would admit it if they weren't faced with some harsh judgements), and there is nothing more right in this world then wanting to make your partner proud and happy!! who doesn't want to do that? one could say i fail. all the way around, to see modern day "rules" when it regards Male/female relationships. i am also not a doormat, i may have a very strong desire to please you, but i won't let myself be walked all over either--there is nothing wrong with being proud of who you are and what you stand for. all of that seriousness aside, let's have some fun!! put aside the pressures of training and obeying and meeting commands, get to know one another and have a relationship that is all our own without being defined by a "lifestyle". If you are a Dom Man who has a good sense of humor, loves all those dorky sides of vanilla life, can blend in without being a STAND UP DEFINITION OF A DOM, enjoys having your woman cater to your every need, sexual and otherwise, and most importantly--likes to laugh!! then please contact me, i am looking for you.
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Ok, have been on here for less than an hour and several reocurring themes keep coming up: do i believe Males are superior to females? yes, i do by their God Given Rights, but do i think a female is your doormat, i would hope that you would chose not to abuse your God Given Rigths to treat a woman like that. secondly, am i oppossed to being owned? not really, "owning" has many different definitions to people--if you are seeking to please and make one person very happy with their life, aren't you already owned? so yes, being owned is a possiblity but not something that i take lightly--to me, it is the final step in a sort of ways to the comittment of a D/s relationship and it takes time and trust..that it the key, if i knew a good gold hearted Man who had nothing but good intetentions, i would have no problem letting him own me, but until then....hopes this answer your questions. Thirdly, no i do not have any children, but instead have focused my energy on career, just as so many other women have done, i am not opposed to children at all, and i actually enoy being a big kid at heart myself...what can i say? they make me laugh and keep me young.
****short and simple, i cannot post a photo on ths site for privacy reasons, that does not mean i have a poor self image, it is actually the opposite!! i happen to like my looks and my build, not a point that many women reach in their lives, but here i am!! all you have to do is ask and i am more then happy to text/email you photos outside of the context of this site, it is sad that people automatically assume you are extememly obese or extrememly homely because you do not post a picture--i have joined a few other "dating" sites and i do have pictures on those, but considering what kind of website and the sad connatations that this one has for us..ie, submissive women being labeled a slut, tha i do not feel comfortable posting a photo here, please do not let something minor like that deter you from contacting me, like i said, all you have to do is ask*****thanks.
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