I have been in kink both personal and public for over 40 years. I have staffed and run events for decades and have many friends around the US I have known for a long time.
I am a relatively active person, I love to hike, travel, cycle and more. I have been on all sides of the dynamics and after my recent profile did some rethinking after messages and interactions ( especially with all the scammers and findoms on this site) and after more thought realized that I am a switch but lean more to my top/dom side. I am good with folks wanting to be friends and associates. That said;
Consent, consent, consent!
In my personal relationship, I’d prefer a switch that is more bottom but she also likes to seek some “revenge.” TBH - the hottest scene I ever saw was a couple that switched mid-scene.As a top/dom, I love to do intense bondage of various styles. I also love to cane and spank and nothing like having her bound and begging for something and telling her “no” till she pleads really hard. I throw long whips and have for over 25 years. Floggers, paddles, zippers and more and always as negotiated and all parties consenting.On the bottom side, I am not a heavy pain masochist but if you get me all hot and bothered, tease and denial, the. Also power exchange is my primary erotic theme. As an example - while I do not desire to be caned, used as punishment for agreed upon rules is great or if teased and edged, I will beg for it at some point when asked in a negotiated scene where we have consented to it prior to start.
Not looking for LDR, findom, virtual.
