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Male Submissive, 45, Mullingar
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About slowshark
I am a 28 year old sub with a fair amount of experience. I am looking for a long term relationship with a dominant or switch woman where BDSM forms an important part of the relationship but by no means takes over the whole thing.
WHAT I'M CURRENTLY LOOKING FOR
As I said, I am looking for a long term relationship with a dominant or switch woman (although I say that I am submissive, I might be happy to switch with the right person). Clearly BDSM is important to me (otherwise I wouldn't be on this website) but I have a life outside of this and that is important to me too.
You would be dominant or switch, intelligent and interested in the type of relationship that I am.
Oh, you also need to be capable of typing "you" instead of text speak equivalents.
ABOUT ME
I am bisexual, but have a very definite lean towards being heterosexual. I'm a 28 year old submissive.
VANILLA
In vanilla life, I work as an engineer (this *does not* mean a mechanic... I have a Masters) in an industry that is not perhaps the most compatible with this lifestyle.
Sports-wise, I like SCUBA diving, running, hiking/rambling, skiing/snowboarding, tennis (although i haven't played for years)... I like watching rugby and baseball (go Red Sox!), although I'd hardly be called fanatical about it.
I enjoy anything from going to the pub to reading a book, but I'm not huge on clubs (of any type) - don't ask why, I don't know... I just don't seem to like the atmosphere for some reason. Despite this, I think I would enjoy fetish clubs if I went with someone I got on with.
One of my major areas of interest is travelling and do it often (the more unusual the location, the better - some of my favorite holidays have been in Burma/Myanmar, Cambodia, Mali, Uzbekistan, Estonia, and Peru - in no particular order).
BDSM
I actively like bondage, some anal play and a few other bits and pieces. I will do S&M and enjoy it in what might be a rather unconventional manner: I do not gain much enjoyment from pain or its infliction itself, but I do enjoy the sense of submission that comes from it (albeit on an intellectual rather than sexual level). As a result, I consider myself submissive, but not especially masochistic.
My hard limits are that I won't do anything with blood, shit, breath control, sounds or permanent marking (and I hope that I don't have to mention animals or children - that, I assume, is a given)... although i would be open to breath play with someone who i trusted greatly and who had a lot of experience at it.
I've just decided that I need to say a bit about how I see hard limits: these are things that I will not do because I feel that they represent an unacceptable health hazard. Needless to say, if you can show me that something isn't as dangerous as I see it to be, I'm happy to change my view about it (hence my comment on breath play above).
Once again, though, I'm going to say that I'm submissive over everything else, so the idea of being dominated is more important to me than any particular activity. Furthermore, although I enjoy BDSM and find that it's something that could well be essential in a long term relationship, it is not the be all and end all of what i look for - the usual vanilla things (catching a movie, having fun with friends, ...) are essential.
LOCATION & TRAVEL
I am based in Luton due to work; I'm all too aware that 99.9% of those I would be interested in getting to know live in London. Luton has an excellent rail link to London (25 mins to St Pancras), which makes it closer to the centre in terms of time spent travelling than many locations within London itself.
CONTACT
I would prefer messages on here but if you arrange otherwise with me, I will communicate through other means if need be. |
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