Slowandsadistic

Always the hard part without sounding like you are putting yourself on a pedestal, so in light of that, have tried to be as open and honest in as few words as possible. A bit about myself. I am about to turn 52 years old, divorced from my ex slave for 5 years, no children or family to speak of, reasonable comfortable and pride myself on my integrity. I have recently returned to my home country, South Africa from the Islands, after living there for 15 years to take control of my local issues. My ex was slave to me for 15 years, and by mutual agreement, decided to end the relationship on amicable terms. We still communicate and talk as she requires advice and guidance as her current Master does not know her abilities and shortfalls. He will learn those in time to come.
As you will see from my profile, I have sadistic tendencies and enjoy pushing limits and experimenting in this form of the life style. My personal limits which are not negotiable are scat, underage and permanent damage. I have never and would never damage my assets or property. My preferences in this way of life are extended periods of extreme use, needle play, enemas, orgasam restriction, caning, whips, heavy bondage, suspension, gagging, humiliation and degradation. From a personal perspective, I am looking long term and real only. I also believe, to control the “mind and soul” is paramount, the rest will follow.
This does not happen over a few emails and internet contacts and will take time in getting to know who you are Something to be kept in mind and adhered to is that I do live a public life, and this should be respected. Hence the ideal person should be able to “hold their own” in public and a full time real slave at home.
Relocation: This is always a matter of concern, and I am sure everybody on this site is aware of the scammers, spammers and fakes / frauds. For these reasons, my policy is simple. If we agree, and an arrangement is confirmed, the slave would pay their own relocation costs as in airfares etc, and in return, I will place a security bond with the relevant authorities (required by Immigration) and arrange all relocation documentation required to facilitate the legal stay in the country. To show good faith, I would also be prepared to refund expenses incurred by the relevant person for relocation on arrival. Some may say that this arrangement is unacceptable, however, from my point of view, after been scammed once before, this is not negotiable.
Single parents will not be discriminated against. As I said, i do not have children and am quiet prepared to consider this scenario  Anyway, if you are interested in communicating further, feel free to drop me a mail and I will respond accordingly

8th Nov 2010......My profile has now been up for just over 1 week. I request that if u are not genuine or serious about relocation and my requirements as per my profile, DO NOT RESPOND. I am a busy person and simply do not have the time or head space to play games. To the genuine persons, do not hesitate to contact me for further discussions.