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Hetero Male Dominant, 65,  Buffalo Grove, Illinois
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Last Online:


 Dominant Male

 Buffalo Grove 


 5' 9"

 210 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female


 Anal Play

 Breast Binding/Play



 Puzzle Games

 Science Fiction

 Rock Music


 Coffee Shops



 Renaissance Faires


 Hair Pulling


 Board Games

 Card Games

 Historical Shows



 Liberal Politics






 Curious About:

 Antique Shows





 Electrical Play



 Fire Play

 Knife Play

 Needle Play


Cyber and phone is fine to start, but the goal will always be an in-person, long-term  R/T relationship. Recently retired and love to drive to new destinations, so travel is not a problem. I prefer someone around my own age or younger.     I am very dominant sexually, but also kind, caring and understanding in general. I can be firm, stern, and demanding, but if you are looking for a mean sadist, that would not be me. If you only want to be a slave and not be loved, again, I can't do that.
I definitely prefer submission when it comes naturally and voluntarily, together with femininity, caring, and trust. But if some punishment also seems to help too, I won’t hesitate. I am intellectually inclined and am always happy to engage in thought- provoking conversation, or a deep emotional one. I tend to prefer the mental aspects of things and I want a long-term commitment, full of trust, control, and love. I want the D/s mentality to be present always and everywhere. But things will be kept discreet in public as appropriate. I do prefer a service-oriented submissive, and that would be a great way to get my attention - and affection.
How does this sound to you?
I enjoy bondage - tying someone up, rendering them helpless, then blindfolded and gagged to make them incoherent. Then comes the teasing, the coercion, watching a strong woman start to whimper and beg for relief and release, from tickling or a feather or an ice cube or being taken almost to the edge of orgasm. Hearing her "uummph" through her gag in protest, and then telling her, "Oh, maybe 20 minutes more of this will calm you down."

If this sounds like one of your own daydreams, don't be afraid to let me know.


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