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About slfpeter
Submission is not easy to explain, especially because it touches so many areas in my life, I also think that everyone experiences submission differently. Since childhood I have noticed that I liked to be dominated by girls/women, only at a later age did I find out that it had a name. So for me, submission is something I was born with, it is not played with and with the right person I can submit myself completely. Submission is in two things, as far as I understand it is both psychological and physical.
For me the psychological is mainly fixed in behavior that is rooted in my sexuality, in which a Dominant determines for me what happens. It is not asked, but instructed that as a subordinate I experience as embarrassing, and with shame, my place is clearly low to the ground and vulnerably naked. Sometimes as a reward, at times as entertainment for Mistress, but also as a punishment. The difference between the Dominant and Her submissive should always be as big as possible, that is the starting point for the D/s relationship I'm looking for....
The devotion I develop for my Dominant reinforces this sense of submission, and makes me feel that I belong to Her, and that I am fulfilling Her wishes. There she takes control of my sexuality, which brings about an obedience that is hard to resist for me. With the accompanying discipline, the servant in me touches the deepest in his soul, certainly if this realization is given in to my Owneress.
For me, there is a clear connection between horniness and obedience, determined by whoever is in control of my horniness. Femdom is therefore very important to me, the realization that as a man I am subservient to the Superior Woman and have nothing to say feeds my submission.
It is not difficult for me to give in to my physical urges, I often notice that there is no brake on this, resulting in a quick fix with an empty feeling. It is precisely here that discipline is needed ... pain is inextricably linked with horniness, it clearly helps to understand the will of my Dominant, and gives guidance in moments of weakness. A real Mistress knows how to be my superior in everything that matters, he naked and low to the ground, She commanding from above, and correcting slave flesh as a means for Her own pleasure.
From this deposition, i intend to find my Dominant. |
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