slavesteve48

What is a submissive? Well first and foremost, beyond anything else, he or she is a human being. They breathe, eat,have a heart (hopefully) and most certainly have a brain.

i'm not Your typical submissive. i do have a brain. i use it. In fact i have been told i think too much! i also believe that yes D/s is about control and structure it is also about life. What i'm saying is that even though i am a submissive i want to have fun, laugh, goof around tease. i am not looking to be so serious that i turn into a robot. That is not me nor is it what i'm looking for.

Now who am i? my name is martin, a 51 yr old male from just south of Boston. To me D/s is about control, structure focus. Its about being there for my owner. For understanding Her needs. For anticipating Her needs. Be that in having Her favorite drink ready when She comes home or having the bath filled with warm water, suds, soft music and candles after a very hard day at work. For knowing that i am there for Her needs not mine. Now going back to my first statement i am human. i have needs, wants and desires. They do need to be met. They are met on Her timetable, when She "decides" they will be met, not when i want them to be met. That is a major distinction between a vanilla and a D/s relationship.

Thank You for reading this.

Respectfully

marty aka steve