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Female Submissive, 22
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Male Submissive, 47, long beach, California
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Female Submissive, 48, Amarillo, Texas
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About slaveserenity0963
I am back on the site after a long hiatus, between life and the pandemic things were chaotic. I am ready to embrace what the universe may send my way.
A little about me, I have been involved in the lifestyle since 2006, I tried to be submissive but that wasn't where my heart is, I identify as a service slave.
Speaking for me, the difference between submissive and slave comes from internal motivation. When I was acting in the role of submissive, it was a temporary following the direction of the person I was interacting with. That temporary following might have lasted for a scene, occasional play session, or even a committed relationship lasting however long it lasted.
Being a slave comes from my internal need to care for people, please people, I get great joy and satisfaction from easing burdens, helping achieve goals, working towards a vision. I get a great sense of security and comfort from having someone else take the lead, having expectations set that I can meet or exceed, having guidelines to keep me focused and keep me from being in my own head so much I spin mentally.
For me to serve someone, I must have respect for them and build trust with them. I am a person who gives that trust and respect unless someone shows me that they do not deserve it, and once broken it is unlikely trust and respect can be rebuilt.
What am I looking for...conversation as a starting point, online conversation is okay for a brief time, but I would want to meet for coffee and conversation after we chat for a bit. From there a friendship, and hopefully that builds to a long-term M/s relationship.
I have many kinks that I particularly enjoy, bondage is a particular favorite. If I am in a relationship, I find that I desire to please Master or Sir by engaging in their kinks even if they aren't my kinks.
More later...
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A pretty intense week of conversations, many of which forced me to look inside myself. I allowed myself to be very vulnerable. I also learned that even in online communications desire and longing had me moving too far too fast and that words on a screen do have the power to break me.
It had been a very long time since I had last interacted with anyone in the lifestyle, I will need to temper desire with a lot of caution and move much slower in exposing my inner core. |
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