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Female Submissive, 48, Amarillo, Texas
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About slaveryEnabler
I am looking for a slave
Hello reader. I am looking for a slave. Many on here call themselves slaves, but use that term somewhat loosely. As I don’t want to waste your time, or mine, let me clarify what I consider a slave.
Know you are slave
A slave is property. I can almost not say it clearer but speaking from experience I need to expand a bit more. When I say property I mean that the slave is owned. And I mean that to the fullest extent possible. I know that legally I cannot own a person, so I don’t have that ambition. But I demand the slave to transfer as much power to me as possible. The transfer of power needs to resemble a real Total Power Exchange as close as possible. The slave needs to transfer virtually all its ability to decide to me.
The moment the slave becomes my property, submits itself to my ownership, the slave does no longer have the right to decide about what is going to happen to it. The slave can no longer decide what to do next. It cannot decide what and when to eat. It can no longer decide what to wear or who to interact with. It does not have control over who to serve. Or whether its body will be modified and how it will be modified. The slave literally does not decide anything anymore. That is what I mean when I talk about TPE. And that is what I mean when I say that the slave is property. No property can decide its own fate. That is as true for a table as it is true for a slave.
But this transfer of power happens with the fullest possible consent of the slave. You decide that you want to transfer the power. And you will transfer that power because you have an inner need to. You need to be slave and you know there is only one way to be slave. I am not talking about a game we play for a day or a week. No this is 24/7 and 365 days a year. So you really do need to KNOW that you are slave.
I am not interested to find out by trial and error whether you are slave or not. So I require a certain level of maturity. I don’t think you will be able to make as momentous a decision about yourself like fully transferring power when you are young. So I am not interested in the teen crowd. I am willing to consider slaves in their late 20s. But it is better when you are at least 30 and have some experience with life in general and with life as a slave.
My end of the bargain
When you decide to transfer that power I will accept it with humility. I know you don’t submit to slavery lightly. It is because you need to be slave to be at peace. You are only happy as a slave. Only as a slave will you reach your potential. That is why you need me. Only an owner can accept the power you transfer. Only an owner will be able to provide you with the life you need. Only an owner is able to make you whole. You absolutely need to understand that or it is not going to work.
And that puts a burden on me. A burden I don’t take lightly. Not only will I accept the responsibility for your physical well being. I am also responsible for making you achieve your status. Only if I own properly will you be able to be slave. So I pledge that I will do all that is needed and to the fullest extent of my capacities to fulfill my role as owner.
Despite the use as slave I will take good care of my property. You will get the proper medical care. Your living conditions will be appropriate for a slave. I will not let you engage in life threatening activities, or activities that are illegal. I will not wear you out too far, but give you time to recover after hard use. You will get proper food, albeit it not always the kind you like. You will always have sufficient water to drink. In other words, I am not interested in destruction. I want use and I want use for a long time.
I will also closely watch for you mental well being. I don’t want a slave that is suicidal. I want a slave that is happy because it is slave. I will work with you to make that possible, but ultimately it is your job to make yourself happy. And when you make me happy at the same time you will have a wonderful life as a slave.
I will not love you. I will cherish you as I would cherish other property, but I am not interested in loving my slave. You as slave serve a purpose. You will make my life more pleasurable. That is the essence of your task in life. I appreciate that service if done properly. But I will not reward you for that satisfaction by loving you. If you are looking for your knight in shining armor I suggest you keep on looking.
Of course the role of owner suits me. I have thought about it long and hard. I have gathered together all my experiences with ownership and I have come to the conclusion I am up to the task. I have owned slaves in the past. I have experience with the less serious part of ownership. Yes I have played as well. But playtime is over. I am ready to step up to the plate and be an owner according to my own definition. I am happy and satisfied with my life as it is. Yet I long to intensify and expand. That is why I have chosen to search that slave that needs an owner.
Physical requirements of the slave
I have already discussed age. But I think you need to realize that I don’t want to deal with too many physical limitations. So don’t be an invalid or too old to handle slavery. I demand physical fitness and the ability to see it through. Yes that means your life as a slave is not always going to be easy. You will have to be able to handle the stress of hard labor. You need to be able to handle the stress of having to service others. You need to be able to handle pain. I don’t care whether you are a masochist or not, as long as you realize that pain will be one of your realities. I am also not looking for a fat slave. Yeah there can be a few pounds too many. We will work those off. But I am not interested in an obese slave.
I will put my marks on you. Tattoos and piercings are the obvious ones. But you may get a scar here or there from my use. I know owners in general like to place their mark on their property. So I understand you have already been marked. That is no big deal. I would love to have a clean canvas but will not discard a slave that wears the marks of previous owners. If you placed the marks yourself that obviously is also fine. There is one thing however that I will not tolerate. Under no circumstances will I accept a slave with enlarged tits. I don’t find the esthetics pleasing. But there is more. I want to be able to stick needles in your tits and I don’t think puncturing your silicones will be a good idea.
Obedience
Obedience is one of the most important parts of slavery. As slave does as it is told without discussion. I decide and you do. That is a simple rule isn’t it? But a rule that is oh so hard to follow. There may well be days you don’t relish the thought of being shackled the entire day. Or you may not relish the having to service a particular person. Or……… You get my drift. There will be moments when you would rather do something else than what is ordered. Tough shit for you. I don’t care. I demand and fully expect obedience. I expect that you do as you are told. And that you do it eagerly because you want to please your owner who enables you to be the slave you are.
Live-in or not
When we start out you will live on your own. Before I fully accept you as slave you will have to prove yourself to me. And I will have to prove to you that I am a suitable owner. So in the beginning we will explore via e-mail and chat. Later, after phone calls and cam sessions, you will visit me or I will visit you. All that exploration is to establish suitability, and to prepare you for that momentous decision whether or not to hand over the keys.
After this initial period, and after I decide whether you are potentially suitable as a slave, you will be asked to decide whether you want to enter into a trial period. If you answer yes, you will remain in your own home and continue your life more or less as it was before, but now I will seriously test you in real life. More visits and more intense interaction. In essence you will in this stage transfer all power to me. But you still have one more opportunity to decide life as my slave is not for you.
This last decision is the final decision. You decide yes or no. If you decide yes, you will be my property. You will no longer have the right to decide whether you want to leave slavery. Only I can decide to release you. You can no longer make that decision on your own. In this stage you will live with me and fully assume all responsibilities as my slave.
If you decide no, the relationship will terminate immediately and you are back on your own.
The use
Ultimately it is none of your business how I use you. But I can understand that you in this stage, when you are reading this profile, would like to understand how I will use you. I will separate the use in a couple of areas. But the most important thing you need to remember is that you have to make me happy. That is your primary task and role in life. I will set strict rules I demand you to adhere to. And I will explicitly lay out how I want things done. Deviations are not accepted.
Domestic use, or how you will make my life easier and more pleasurable. You will perform all domestic duties. That ranges from cleaning to cooking, to repairs, to getting the groceries. In essence you will do anything that is needed to run a house.
Decoration. I like to look at things I find pleasing. It will be your task to be pleasing to my eyes. Hence there will be a dress code. And your body will be modified to my liking, not yours. I already mentioned tats and piercings but you may also include hairstyle, body hair, make-up and anything else I can dream of that will enhance the pleasure I arrive when I see you. Please do realize this also includes your use as a decorative element in the house.
Sexual use. I will use you sexually as I see fit. I may fuck you or I may not. I may finger you or I may not. And I may use you to satisfy one of my fetishes. I like to degrade and I like to make you messy. And when I am talking messy I am not talking about a facial. No I like to drag you through the mud, rub garbage in your face, stuff your holes with whatever I like. Spit in your face, piss on you and even shit in your mouth. All things I get off on.
I will also require you to service others sexually. That can be men or women. You will have no say in who you will service as you will have to remember you ultimately provide that service to me. If I want you to do something I want you to do that because it will please me.
Torture. I am a sadist which means it pleases me to inflict pain on you. I can be pretty tough and you will be bruised and wear the marks of my sadism frequently. Just be prepared for that. How I torture and when is none of your business. It is just one of the services I will demand from you.
Privacy. You will have none. If I want to see you I see you. You will not be able to lock yourself away from me. Not in your cell and not in the bathroom. And I want you to be open in your communication. I want to hear all that goes on in your head.
Punishment. I do not punish with the whip. When I use the whip I do that because I derive pleasure from it. Not to correct your behavior. When I am not satisfied with your performance as a slave I will get where it hurts most. You need to be slave to be happy. If I don’t like how you provide service to me I will reduce your ability to be slave. I will take away your right to perform the duties that belong to the slave. In that way I reduce your sense of happiness and your sense of being. That is just as did when you reduced my level of satisfaction and pleasure when you did not perform well as slave. If it means I will have to throw you out I will not hesitate one bit.
Invitation
I believe this profile gives a lot of information about me and what I looking for. I invite you to digest what you have just read and see whether you can picture yourself in the position of my slave. Of course I am open to explain when things are unclear. But I am not willing to engage in fantasy games. I am not prepared to tell you precisely how I will torture you or what clothes you will wear. That is not important. It is the mind and spirit that I have displayed here for you that you should recognize and that you should find attractive. If not, move on. But if you do find it attractive you know what you need to do.
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Back from vacation. Now the search for a slave continuous. I want to repeat some of what I wrote in My profile.
- Know you are slave
- Know you need to be owned
- I am a Sadist
- I enjoy degrading slaves
- Obedience is key
Yes I am more extreme than most on here. And I am real. No bullshit and no time wasting. And I also do not engage in fantasy exchange in chat or via e-mail.
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