Be in shape, average or curvy. Not bbw. Have a mind, think and be able to have conversation. Be willing to meet in a reasonable time. Be willing to work at a relationship. I know this is cm, and whips chains abound, but the foundation is still a relationship. I want to show you to family as much as cum on you. Have passions and goals in life. I want a submissive not a blow up doll.
Life is simple. We all want the same thing, generally. To be happy and content. I want this in my relationship. I want to be who I am while you are who you are. I am seeking that. I want to find a woman whom is happy with her sub nature. We are all constantly growing so no one need be complete. I want to mold, train, discipline and punish you all in an effort to find that happiness.
I do not want to spend endless email or "dates" trying to find that. I am confidant that after you meet someone, establish mutual physical and intellectual attraction the rest will develop. So if you are not ready willing and able to being a real relationship then find some online wizard dom to dominate you over cam. I am not that. I am a man, and know what I want.
The basics: I am a stable, consistent man. I am intellectual, open minded, and interested in a wide variety of cultural things. I defy easy explanation, yet am simple. I want someone who's willing to let me explore what made them and utilize that knowledge to build a stronger, deeper and more substantive relationship.
I also enjoy the normal dating stuff. My general attitude is one very similar to the 1950's lifestyle. The man leads and the the woman follows.
I will not tolerate switch women. Please make sure you are ready for extreme kink. Be height/weight proportionate. No bbw please, a few extra pounds are just fine however.
The spanking game...
I have this dildo, with a sucking cup. I place it on the coffee table in front of me, you kneel in fornt of it.
I then give you five minutes. in those five minuts you need to deep throat the dildo.
when you get it as far as you can, you hold it. I then record every second you have it down your throat.
After 5 minutes I subtract the seconds it was deep in your throat. the remained represent spankings you get. 1 spanking for every 5 second left.
Sexy poker hostess....Any takers? Let me know.
We are a group of 4-5 professional men who have regular poker parties about once a month. We range in age from 30 to 50.
We are seeking an open minded sexy girl to be the hostess with the mostess at these parties. This is purely for fun and entertainment. We are good natured yet fun and assertive.
We seek a girl who will be comfortable dressing sexy in lingerie or the like. Serving us beers and snacks. Engaging in witty sexually charged repartee and good natured fun. No sex is expected, just some devilish fun.
I myself would be the main contact and like girls who have shy or hidden desires to be the center of attention, like being the exhibitionist and wonton flirt.
You must be able to enjoy this and participate. We do not want a girl to just sit back and take drink orders. We want you to bring some fun and excitement.
If you are curios and interested please respond and we can chat about the details more. Also please include your age, looks, something sexy about you and any other information you think may be interesting.
Resting on a razor my thoughts balanced.
At once in harmony.
A whisper from disaster .
the story once begun At first well known
Transient in my mind I loose it to itself
Now I am the one left unfinish
Monster dash today, great 5k along the lake
Just registered for the Chicago Monster half marathon! My first half marathon. What costume should I wear?
The blow job scale...
Ladies where do you end up in terms of your ability?
10 so hard you puke or gag and I do not stop, only momentarily for you to breath, face slapping spitting anything goes.
5 I sit back, hands in your hair and occasionally thrust my cock deep
1 I sit back and you do all the sucking, no input from me physically, I will always say something...
Right now in sitting on the great lawn of millennium park, enjoying some cabernet franc, listening to free music..
Can anyone tell me what is missing?
Lets talk. What is the difference, in YOUR mind between being a submissive and slave? Not what you have read someplace but how you would be able to live or what would make you feel satisfied.
I have come to some conclusions and rules.
No girl under 30, unless you are 100% mature and NOT flakey, I will not accept that. I tend to think, while it is a generalization, women over 30 are mature.
Be fit. This means not fat, out of shape or insecure in wearing "feminine clothes" Skirts, dress. If you are ashamed and need to cover your body, then I am not interested.
Be available. Both emotionally and schedule wise. I do not want to have to schedule 3 weeks in advance around your kids/husband/boyfriend.
Who would like some rope time? ;)
I have come up with a new game. I call it role for a hole. I make the girl role a dice. Each number corresponds to a hole to fuck. I then fuck that hole as hard as I can pumping into it ten hard deep thrusts.
I saw this in a girls profile. I like it, it is exactly what I enjoy indulging in with a girl form time to time. I had to record it for myself.
Irrumatio –noun
Active participation in fellatio by the male member; aggressive insertion of the penis into a partner's mouth or throat.
I read an article years ago in scientific american detailing the process with which the brain process visual information. Therefore I try to force myself to re-sense things I felt I knew well already.
If there was nothing to regret, then there was nothing to desire. - Vera Pavlova
Happy thanksgiving all you pervs. I know its a holiday yet I had the most intense kinky scene idea pop into my head! Maybe it is the holidays...
dam sinus cold! dam you@!!!
11-5-10 Time for an update! Ok, so on halloween I ran the chicago monster 5k dash.. That was a lot of fun. Running along the lake in grant park and the costuems. I cant wait for next year and will do the half marathon.
Had to put the motorcycle away. I hope I can get one or two days before it snows.
10-22-10
I got my fireplace all set and ready for winter. This is my first place with a real wood burning fireplace I am excited! I love the process of moving. I know its a pain and alot of work. However it is also a time of new beginnings, excitement and fun. I am considering a housewarming party. Any suggestions on themes?
Long week. Must to do. Moving into a new place. This one has a wood burning fireplace. Let the winter come I say! I can now lay out a large soft rug in front of the fireplace and sip wine while a slave girl lays naked at my feet, tethered by a collar. The fireplace dancing shadows on her body. mmmm
5 miles today, easy run but my ankles felt sore BEFORE I ran not after, talk about weird!
I did drink an whole bottle of gatorade and was forced to watch fox news on the tv. vomit.
I went to a new bar in logan square. I loved it. It's called "owen and engine." An english pub. I loved the dark rich look to it. The large over stuffed leather sofa. I had a cask ale and sunk into the seat sipping my beer. I had a great time.
The funny thing was the menu, they had all these strange words for french fires! Bap, chips, frittes. lol. I love french fires with mayo, mmm mm
Any girls been to that place?
I've been burning my ipod up with these two bands;
Black rebel motorcycle club
The heavy.
Dam I'm digging them.
Now time for an esspreso .
OK this is currently my favorite commercial!
I love the way the guy talks and the mini Giraffe at the end! wtf is that?
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I went swing dancing friday night in Hyde park at the U of C. It was on the third floor of this gothic building. They just do not make buildings that, um sturdy anymore!
Well it was all 19 year olds with a sprinkling of, I suspect professors or TA's. No alcohol. Instead 2 huge water jugs like on some high school football sideline. Everyone was claiming their cup and writing their name on it. Cute.
I thought, wow this is almost to god dam wholesome. I Had a great time and enjoyed myself. I left there feeling like I was stepping out of time from the 1950's
I just signed up for the Monster 5k dash in Chicago! It is on Halloween. They encourage costumes any suggestions?
A perfect first date. It always seems that that first meeting, first date with a new sub is difficult. I think it should happen as soon as safety, trust and general compatibility are established. Chemistry is a fickle thing. We are often turned off or on by small seemingly trivial things.
So in my opinion a first date/meeting should have the following. This is just my idea and I welcome input from any sub girls out there.
1) No expectation of sex at all. This removes a huge pressure. Besides we can all keep it in our pants for a bit. Flirting and innuendo are fine, but no sex.
2) Something simple and otherwise vanilla. Coffee or drinks. Not dinner,sports events or movies. This is a time that I want her to become at ease, overcome anxiousness and settle down. First date jitters are real. Lets just accept it and get them out of the way.
3) An accepted time to call it over. An hour two maybe. Nothing open ended. This way if we are feeling uncomfortable there is a bit of a safety valve. We can have a drink or two, and move on. If it was meant to be then we have a second date.
The bottom line, we are all still normal people (relatively) and seek real substantial relationships. Being into d/s does not in my opinion make that any less important.
I went swing dancing last night in Chicago. What a great time! I real live band, with a standup bass, hours and a luscious lead female singer.
All kinds of ages, people races was so diverse and fun. Everyone dancing. I just started lessons and am loving it.
I need to get some 40' era clothes and dress up next time.
You know what sucks Balls today? It's to cold to ride my motorcycle.
The only good thing, I have coffee thank the gods for coffee. I take mine black thank you.
Great day today. Had swing dance classes downtown. Lot's of fun. I have to admit that it was slightly d/s too. I mean there was a clear emphasis on the man being the leader and the woman being the following. He has to give her the proper direction so she knows what to do. I like it.
We had this exercise where couples all stood in a circle. Men looking in, women facing out. The instructors used hand gestures to give the men details about what moves to do. This way the women would not know what to expect. They then had to really follow the mans lead, not anticipate or force it themselves.
Then I had mexican hot dogs. so Good day!
I am oddly fascinated by and enjoying old epoisode of the bob newhart show. Weird I know but there is something cool about it.
Was thinking about how this time of year is awesome for bonfires and wine at night!
Now all I need is a sweet, obedient slave girl to linger about the fire sipping wine.
I love the cappuccino at intelligentsia on broadway!
I find it odd that I can run 5k in under 30 minutes on a bad ankle and that does not hurt. BUT putting my pants on hurts like hell! WTF
coffee. What would the world do with out coffee in the morning!
Football people! Any girls out there like football! Let me hear you!
Today is the perfect day to ride my motorcycle to work! Just need a good sub on the back now.
I have been on and off this site for years now. Had some girls I dated, met. Overall the ones I have met in person. Awesome people, real genuine.
Otherwise, meh. Not very impressed. I tend to get cynical in the fall.
come sit next to me
i am not your enemy
come admit it to me
have i become your enemy?
come admit it to me
that i have become your enemy
ran 3.1 miles of speed intervals in 33:28 min today. My ankle has been sore sine monday. I ran 8 miles that day. Strangely my ankle began to hurt.
This past week, I decided to make running a half marathon a goal. Doing some research I found one on Oct 31 in Chicago. The great part they give you a huge awesome fucking belt buckle as a prize!
