I love Houston!

Everything is not as I expected, but I'm adjusting.

I moved to Houston 6 weeks ago - big change from Athens Ga. LOL 

I'm working on fitting in to the big city, not as easy as I thought it would be,

Happy turkey day

This site is used for many different purposes, that's cool, but I am using it as a place to find a LTR with a genuine Dominant. 

So the kind of messages I like to get are from a Dom who reads my profile statement and asks me out or wants to meet -

NOT someone looking for a fuck.

Doesn't anyone play with their subs anymore? I talk to all these Dominant men who have 0 bondage furniture, never used a flogger or crop, no chains, cuffs, shackles to tie me up with, how am I supposed to be a good sub without my favorite activities? Is it too much work? Am I a high maintenance sub lol? I LOVE impact play.

Oh Great Universal Spirit!, please send me a Dom who likes impacting my body :-)

Hey darling gentlemen, just FYI we can read a message without opening it, so don't think your words go unread, they do get red- but if you haven't complied with a ladies requests she doesn't believe you are worthy of a reply- simple as that.

How to get a response from someone you are interested in;

1. Read the profile statement

2. Honor the requests in your reply

(also if you want to score brownie points)

a. use spell-check

b.re-read your message before sending it to ensure it is easily understood.

                         This concludes today's lesson in etiquette :-)

Oh yea, another day of Georgia sunshine!

Where are all the mature Dom's? You know, over 45, REAL, looking for a slut like me? I know they are out there, I am aware of my worth as a sub, all I need is the right Man

Ok, my weekday pursuers are gone,

time for the weekend guys to start

their shift lol  :-)

Life on CM lol, I guess more people mean more chances to find a real person! Right? May as well be positive about it :-)

I am aware that everyone (male & female) on this site has to weed through all the game players, just the price we have to pay for being able to use the internet to search for potential partners.

Even if only 1 in 50 is real, I would have to say it's worth the trouble, but I must admit that I, like other's here do need to vent once in a while to get the aggravation out of my system, then I am happy to continue my search :-)

Good luck and happy hunting! 

So I have been getting messages all day, then at 5pm they all stop, this happens all week, and on the weekends I get messages from a different group of men,  I figure they are fucking around at work on their computers, then go home to their wives/girlfriends, and on the weekends it's the guys who cant get online during the week, so they are in the basement living their fantasy life online lol. 

OK OK I know it's not ALL of them, but a majority- I had 4 "Dom's" who wanted to meet me this weekend, so ok no problem, already had the first one cancel on me, and 2 others haven't confirmed with me yet, so I'm thinking it could be a wash lol. Anyway, just part of the journey I guess. 

  Life is good lol, there really are Dominants out there! I was beginning to wonder...... too bad they can't all be in my backyard, ah well finding what you want is usually not easy, but the search is part of the journey. I have talked with many Doms who have been looking for 5, 10 even 20 years for their partner, and they are still optimistic and happy to do it, I know I go through phases where I get tired of wading through the junk and have to take a break for a while, but it doesn't take long until the pull of my craving brings me back to my search lol. In a perfect BDSM world everyone would have current pictures on there profile, a short well written paragraph or two of who they are and what they are looking for, and most importantly no lying or deception of any kind would be allowed- don't ask me how this would be regulated lol, this is a "perfect" world set up remember. 

pat

I am not one of the men on here pretending to be a woman, if anyone thinks that then don't contact me. I don't read other women's profile's, so I have nothing to compare mine to- I write from my heart and it's a woman's heart.

I readily meet men who I find on this site and others, I'll even fly somewhere to meet someone, I have a web cam and don't have a problem showing myself live.

Everyone has to be able to accept rejection, not all men are attractive to me, just as all men don't see me as attractive, that's fine with me, I know that there are those who like what they see in me- it's universal that no matter what you look like there are others that like you as you are. So I don't pretend to be anything I'm not- that would defeat the purpose of me being here- which is to find a Man who want's me for me, for who and what I am. This is not some fantasy life I live online, I am not married or attached and I wont be until I find my match in a Dom, not that I'm interested in getting married, I'm not- I live alone and support myself and I am not able to financially support a man so you can forget that- all you can get from me is someone who is genuinely in this lifestyle because that's who she is and what I want is the same from a Dominant.

It's sad to see how many men have to use this site for their playground, guys who are married, attached, inadequate in some way, physically or mentally, and the only way they can feel good about themselves is to see how far they can take their deception with a woman. Men who derive their pleasure from hurting women whether it is physically, emotionally, or sexually, are abusive bully's and in the end everyone loses because he only feels good for the moment and soon needs to prey on his next victim, while the thousands of victims learn not to trust, who become jaded in their search, and finally give up.

Damn, its going on 3 years in my search for the right Dominant, when I started this path I never dreamed it would be so hard to find someone who wants me for who and what I really am.

I've emailed, and talked to thousands, and met with dozens of supposedly "Doms" - 97% of which turned out to be predators, fakes, and wanna bees, I've been beat, raped, used and abused in unkind and unwanted ways- all of which I had to endure to learn about people and to know without a doubt that I want what I want and nothing will stop me from searching for Him. With each experience I get better, and if I don't spot them right away it doesn't take long to see through their false facade and move on. I've met some of the real Men who have to take a lot of bullshit in their search thanks to all the fakes online, and they are gems- they get me and I understand them, so I'm staying on this path because I wouldn't be happy straying from it, just another day in my search for a Dom.

Update :) 

I love Athens and have my own place now - just me and my kitties!

New update

I left Athens for a while but have cum back, I love this place ! :)

I found work and am looking forward to getting my own place, my good freind has taken me and my 3 cats in while I get my shit together.

Hello,

A couple simple requests if you would like to contact me :)

If you have no current photo's of yourself in your profile, please send some with your greeting.

If you have no journal entries that describe your life, please tell me about you

If you have little info about you in your description, please tell me about you.

Thank you :) You can see by my profile that I put some effort into it, my journal goes back several pages- all my stories are my fantasies, my photo's are current, if you want a response please write more than "Hi, how are you" or "I want to lick your ass", neither impress me-though they say a lot about you,lol.

I adore "true" Dominants those few who are intrinsically Dominant- not just "think" they are, you can try and act the roll- but its no where close to a man who is a  born Dom, and knows it:)

Thanks for reading and have a good day

 Hello anew

Ive been hidden for a few months due to some changes happening in my life-     

to update;

my house is gone,

I'm looking for work.

 I have come to accept the fact that 95% of emails I receive are bogus, scams, bs, predators or psychos with too much time on there hands- so don't be annoyed with me if I don't come rushing into your arms :) I read all the emails and try to determine there validity, I do love honest men and there are a few still around.

Thanks for reading.

It was a gorgeous late summer day, the kind where you cant help but skip out on work at lunch time and crank up the radio to sing along to good song. I turned onto the interstate and headed north, no where in particular just enjoying the sunshine, and the smell of fresh air coming in my window. I am wearing a red silk blouse, that keeps flapping open to a peep show of my bare breasts, and a black skirt that is way too short for my job as a foreman on a construction site, but I like being an inspiration, as they call me, to my guys at work- the job is always completed ahead of schedule and on budget, so nobody complains.
 I slid my skirt up on my thighs giving my hand access to my always wet pussy- and start rubbing my clit and thinking about A, who last Wednesday, spent 5 hours making me cum until I couldn't take any more. Damn! 5 minutes of memories had my cunt dripping as I had started finger fucking my pussy with 3 fingers. I sped up as I saw the rest area sign thank god 2 miles ahead- I needed to pull over and have an orgasm before I wrecked on the highway. Pulling onto the ramp it looked pretty deserted except for a van with a couple of electricians and an 18 wheeler with the driver sleeping in his cab. I pulled into a space at the end of the row and turned off my car. I got out and stretched and walked over to an area where there was a picnic table surrounded by old pine trees. Aahh, quiet and alone I put one foot on the table bench and continued finger fucking myself, my eyes closed and I was oblivious to everything around me except for the orgasm that was building in my hot wet cunt, low moans escaped my lips as I thought of A forcing his hard cock in and out of my pussy. I opened my eyes and smiled to see the two electricians standing next to and in front of me- I just nodded and raised my skirt up over my hips as I bent over the table and spread my legs wide open- that was all the invitation they needed, as they unzipped their pants and pulled out two nice looking hard ons. One was shoved in my face and I sucked it into my mouth, the other cock was thrust from behind sliding easily into my hungry cunt. I had my first orgasm immediately on the third thrust of his cock, and as I sucked on one guys balls the other fucked my pussy as I came every three minutes, somehow my shirt had come off and each guy was holding a tit and pinching my nipples. Fuck! I was in heaven- I love fucking strangers and these guys were giving their all! One with his hand on my head forcing me to deep-throat his cock, gagging as I choked on it, while the other was fucking me fast and hard. They went at it for at least 30 minutes until they couldn't hold out any longer (or before someone called the police on our kinky asses) and my throat was filled with a huge load of hot cum, at about the same time my other friend was filling my pussy with his hot cream, they each grunted as they emptied there cocks inside me, after which I cleaned off both cocks with my tongue and mouth. They both helped me dress myself and walked me to my car, telling me to drive carefully as I pulled away waving- with all three of us grinning like idiots.