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About skngstructure
As my screen name indicates, I am a slave who thrives on structure and control.
I hate making laundry lists of qualities I'm looking for in an Owner, but to some extent I guess it is a necessary evil.
I think the most important thing is my Owner needs to be someone I trust, respect and genuinely look forward to spending time with. He should be someone I look forward to introducing to my friends and family (even my aunt, who's a nun). He needs to have control of himself and his home. Honesty, loyalty, personal integrity and communication should be things that are important to him.
I want to serve in a peaceful, happy and well run home. I love serving and feel it is my purpose to make my Owner's life easier and more pleasant. High expectations and consequences for not meeting them should be part of the dynamic. Rituals and routines combined with spontaneity keep me engaged, but lists of senseless rules and "make work" make me nuts.
I am not a pain slut. I am not a hoover that can suck for 23 of every 24 hours. I'm a real, aging woman with some health concerns. Those are things that are going to need to be dealt with. As is abundantly clear if you've read my stats, I am not a skinny supermodel type. But I am making changes in my life to improve my health. As I continue on that journey results will improve but I'm not looking for a number on the scale, I'm working for a healthier, more active and enjoyable life.
If you are married and your spouse has no idea about your desires, I sympathize, but I am not who you are looking for. If you have an aversion to personal hygiene, its not going to work. If you're not willing to put in the time and work to forage a connection and built a solid basis of trust, keep looking.
I am a bit of a conversation slut, so if you want to chat, please feel free to get in touch, but emails with more than one word are more likely to get a response!
Good luck on your search.
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In the interest of full disclosure and honesty, here's a little more detail on the health issues I alluded to in my profile. I was recently diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis and fibromyalgia. I still don't know how these things are going to affect me in the long term, but they are my reality. I also have debilitating migraine headaches.
Unfortunately, these aren't the sexy fun things that erotic novels are based on, but its something anyone who is considering this slave should know. |
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