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Expecting witty retort (that is the dang word i was looking for for a week!) or some snappy repartee? i do have those, i am quick with the  lines and i do have a dry sense of humor. Trust me though, i am not going to drop to my knees and beg you for much if anything. i have a Master.

What i am looking for is someone locally who can, "take the Domme edge off."

i am a masochist, that is a given.  Have to love the Germans
they invented Sadism no matter what the French think.

On the other side of the coin when the mood hits, i like to see the play of emotions across the face of the person under my fingers.  The sharp intake of breath and the fight against the restraints. 

i am also seeking someone who can mentally challenge me. Brain cells, please for the love of God have some. i love intelligent conversations, politics, travel.  i read the NYT, and Reuters daily, i look at Der Spiegel: English version, my German sucks lately, weekly.



Feel brave?

6/2/2009 9:27:37 PM

An oldie but a goodie.

Never "Assume" anything, you make an ass out of you and me.
5/26/2009 10:19:20 PM

Honesty.  We learn as children.  George Washington couldn't tell a lie and he did chop the cherry tree down.  Honest Abe.  As honest as the day is long.  We are taught, tell the truth, stand up for it, defend the truth.  Be honest.  But then, we start to see the cracks, we hear the lies from family, friends, lovers.  We read them in the news, what they want to tell us, what they leave out or twist.  Honesty starts to tarnish.  Eventually we fall into the trap.  We start fibbing when it is convenient, when it will save us some hassle at work or with family/friends/lovers.  We do it to spare someone pain.  Or, we even forgo honesty to just get what we want.  Amazing that in the end, honesty is forgotten when really, it would help maybe achieve the goal of what you are after.
5/25/2009 9:29:16 PM


rot in hell
5/23/2009 8:03:07 PM

Do i need to hold a big flashing neon sign over my head to show what i need?
5/13/2009 5:53:54 PM

I shouldn't complain.  Given the economy I am luck enough to have a job, even if it is part time.  But lord, the hunt for full time is frustrating.  Seriously wonder if could give up and just find a few subbie boys to just pay me for doing things to them, at least out of that you get instant feedback vs sitting and waiting for people to find the balls to call back and say thanks but no thanks.  grr
5/5/2009 9:11:21 PM

If you send me an e mail with a request in it, at least spell the request correctly!  I can not and will not put your number in a "bathrm" stall since I don't know what a "bathrm" stall is or even what it looks like.

Now, if you meant a bathroom stall, then hey, you know what.  Not happening! 

Easier way, go get 1000 business cards printed with your number on them and hand them out at a bar with some silly message on them and save everyone a headache with the stupid e mails.
4/28/2009 2:33:43 PM
Another rant.

19 year old "experts" in every bdsm aspect on their profile.  Profiles that are just so racist that I don't know if I am surprised or just saddened that CollarMe can't have them yanked.  It violates "TOS" people!

Profiles with obvious altered photos, or something pulled from a catalog.  Then the user has the audacity to profess honesty and how they look for that in a partner.  First step to honesty, your own photo. 
2/18/2009 7:00:28 PM

What is it with photos at times on here?  People take photos and take all this effort to look amazing in them, or they show off certain body parts but they forget one thing. The background!

I do not want to see your dirty god only knows what in the background or grandma's clown doll collection.  Think of what you are standing/sitting/kneeling in front of before you take a photograph.  Also, check the reflection, not everyone enjoys the cell phone gym mirror spot light look.
11/23/2008 5:48:27 PM

For God sakes! Read the profile in full.  I have a Master, I will not and never will apologize for that.  I have rules that he set that I am required to follow.  If you can't deal with that or get that around the brain then keep on moving to someone who doesn't have a Master and who doesn't have rules that they must follow or suffer for not following them.
10/25/2008 11:07:15 AM

The most annoying thing; unread e mail that ppl just fly over.  i think i will have to name the pumpkin tonight when i carve it, take out some frustrations, haha.
10/1/2008 4:15:39 PM

Allergies suck; but Nyquil and Mucinex rock!
9/27/2008 2:00:27 PM

i am not an automated "yes, Sir" slave answering machine.
9/15/2008 5:47:54 PM
Another daily tip.

E-mail me fine, but don't delete the profile after sending an e mail and then wonder why i don't talk to ya if you come back.

9/14/2008 9:32:14 AM
odd revelation last night.  After years of working my butt off, literally, I found out that someone I played with once, isn't attracted to my body type. 

Not an insult, but just odd for me to realize that now.
8/31/2008 2:34:05 PM

The eternal question.  How hard is it for a person to answer a voicemail or text msg to let someone know they are still alive after having a freak out during a scene and leaving???? 
7/8/2008 9:47:39 PM

Who knows, maybe i will get back to rambling here in the future...