Skin1701

A little clarity about what I?m looking for?

I?m not interested in one-night stands, endless fantasy chat or people who only appear when they?re horny. I?m looking for a genuine connection with someone who wants BDSM and a real D/s dynamic to be part of their life.

Age and gender aren?t particularly important to me, but attraction is. You don?t need to be perfect, but you do need to look after yourself. I?ve lost 3? stone over the last 12 months and take pride in the effort I?ve made. I?m simply not attracted to people who are very overweight or seriously out of shape.

If you?re genuine, want to build trust and actually meet when the time is right, say hello.

And yes, I?ll expect to see a normal photo of you before we meet. Nothing kinky or explicit. I just want to know who I?m talking to.

Please, be real. I?m not looking for pen pals and promises.

I don't understand why people from the other side of the planet think anything is going to happen when we're so far apart. I'm happy to exchange messages but nothing more. Unless we are 100% compatible and I'm given a very, very good reason why I shouldn't chance wasting my time!

Another time waster only interested in a quick w@nk!

Another lying time waster bites the dust. Is anyone on CS real?

I've taken delivery of a new "slave cage". I wonder who's going to be the first to be locked in it...

On an extended break for health reasons. If I don't reply to messages, it's because I don't have access to WiFi. 

So many "subs" want to top from the bottom.

I'm not desperate, but I do despair. 

Such high hopes dashed once again. I really don't think anyone out there is genuinely prepared for the realities of serving as a sub. 
Perhaps I should forget searching for a sub in practice and just get on with my life. 

A list of some my gear, in no particular order...

Police issue handcuffs

Steel collar and matching wrist & ankle cuff set with linking chains

Leather collars, wrist & ankle cuffs

Leather straight jacket

Various assortment of locking leather straps, different lengths

Various gags, ring, ball, penis, etc

Lots of clingfilm and duct tape!

Paddles, horse whips

Enema gear, butt plugs, dildos

Various chastity cages and one adjustable chastity belt

To be clear, I will provide my name and a photo if a chat exchange feels positive. But respect, manners, courtesy come first. 

So, apparently I'm a precious, immature time waster because I wouldn't give someone my name and a face photo after, like 5 messages. I don't think I'm missing out much, really...

I'm thinking this wasn't such a good idea after all...

Ive come back to CS after at least five years away, and genuinely surprised to see a lot of the same faces and profiles. 
TBH, I'm not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing...