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About SkFrndsMaybeMore
Looking to Expand my Circle of Friends
Hi, I'm a kind, funny, sapio/demisexual, single, mature gentleman who is seeking potential, long term, meaningful, platonic friendships (any gender/orientation).
If, in the process of becoming friends with a woman, we mutually came to the conclusion that we shared significant vanilla and kink compatibility, I would be open to exploring a loving, committed relationship with her.
Some, if not most of you, will think that my offer of friendship is nothing but a ruse to get into a sexual relationship. While this would probably be true for many men that is emphatically not true for myself.
I am seeking a genuine friendship. If I become friends with a woman, I'm not going to have a problem with her being interested in other men. You can take that to the bank.
In fact, she can talk about her dating life, or committed relationship, as much as she wants and I'll be supportive of her. And if she should fall in love with someone, I'll be first in line to celebrate that!
BTW, the above isn't theoretical musing on my part, I've had real world friendships exactly like that.
One of the reasons that this approach appeals to me - other than the primary one of making new friends - is because most of my significant relationships have had a lover/best friend vibe.
Another reason is that when it comes to kink and vanilla compatibility, while both are critical, I find the later to be more challenging to find and it certainly takes much longer to determine.
The biggest problems in determining vanilla compatibility is that it's almost pointless to address it head-on. If you asked everyone in the US whether they believe in communication - you'd only get one answer and yet many couples separate precisely because of a breakdown in communication.
Yet another reason is that it's very difficult for human beings to be totally honest with themselves.
The bottom line is that there's no substitute for time when it comes to evaluating vanilla compatibility. So, if that's important to you, it seems to me that what I'm proposing should be of some interest to you.
More About Me
I'm a creative, analytical (big surprise right? LOL), introspective and passionate man, who is eternally curious about the world, a life long learner and someone who is always trying to grow as a person.
I'm easy to talk to, a good listener and I enjoy talking about a wide variety of topics - both intellectual and the not-so-serious.
Strong communication skills (including listening) are required for emotional support, intimacy and to overcome relationship friction.
I've got 'em.
I am also a creative, outside-the-box thinker, who thinks for himself in a way that is highly unusual. I ask questions, notice details and make connections between things that escape other people.
The bottom line is that my mind, and how I think, is a big part of my self-identity.
If my profile comes off as being arrogant, please know three things. 1) I have a high degree of self-awareness; 2) I have ADHD and my mind, for better or worse, works differently than other people's; 3) I am simply describing myself as objectively as I can and honestly have no desire to create a false persona.
If you choose to invest a modest amount of time in getting to know me, I sincerely believe that most of the statements in this profile will quickly become self-evident to you.
And for those that aren't, feel free to challenge me in a respectful manner - ie when you said X in your profile, what was the basis for that remark? I'll be glad to share my thinking with you and throw in some real world examples.
Last but certainly not least, I have an excellent and varied sense of humor, love to laugh but most of all, love to make other people laugh. My last partner and I shared an insane amount of laughter.
When it comes to friendships, I have no agenda. Every friendship is unique. My style is to be transparent and allow things to evolve organically.
The bottom line is that I will be as happy as a pig in slop, if this profile leads to just one meaningful, platonic friendship and if against all odds it leads to love, I will be thrilled beyond words.
My Ideal Person
Some of the character traits that I look for in people are honesty, authenticity, thoughtfulness, self-awareness, personal integrity, good communication skills, a capacity for emotional support and intimacy, sensitivity, kindness, loyalty, a good heart and of course a sense of humor.
If my profile has resonated at all with you, I would love to hear from you. |
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