SixCutnShaved

Up till now I've been a Dom in D/s play. But I've read that to be truely good at Dominance, one must experience and understand submission.

I've been playing on and off since 2000 and I've had this in the back of my head all this time and now I've decided that it's time I try the other side of the coin. I love the Dom side too much to give it up completely, however, and would like to find someone who would enjoy trading roles, when appropriate.

I'm married to a vanilla wife who doesn't get my attraction to this lifestyle but knows I love her and am not interested in leaving. As long as I don't rub her nose in my affairs or make a public spectacle of myself, she's complacent to letting me do what I need to be happy.

I've been doing this long enough to realize that once someone begins playing with eachother, it's inevitable that strong feelings develop. I'm looking for someone who I can play with, develop those kinds of bonds and still understand that we have lives waiting for us outside our special bubble we've created. To some this may seem futile to invest that kind of time and emotion with someone without the payoff of a permanent commitment. To others, this may be just what they're looking for. It's to those I'd ask to contact me.

The interests I've listed are as a Dominant as I've no real experience as a sub. My only hard limits would be no cutting, blood play or the leaving of marks lasting longer than a few days [that would freak out my S.O. completely].