I have been reading the message boards here for quite some time as a "guest". i never made a profile because i didn't feel the need, i wasn't looking for anything, wasn't searching . i just enjoy the discussions, the opinions of others in the lifestyle. at this point in my life i am still not looking for a relationship, but feel the need for friendship perhaps, maybe a little advice, maybe support of others. this is a time of great difficulty for me, a time for decisions and changes. i may not respond to all the e-mails i receive, especially those looking for more than i have to give. this doesn't mean i am rude, i simply don't have time to respond to all.
i also do not respond to chat requests from strangers.
i have no profile yet, but will work on it soon.