Ok, I want to be clear from the outset. This is not my first ad, but I'm getting better at asking for what I want. Refining it as it were. Firstly, please don't contact me if you can tell by my profile that you are not for me. I know there is a certain element of 'shooting in the barrel' to this process, and then there's the "Well, I really like THEM alot, and if they just got to know me..." Please. Just don't.
Ok, the vanilla stuff first:
I am a real live girl. I am smart and pretty. I like sex, and everyday life just as well. I am also full of life, and would like someone in kind. Quiet and brooding sounds sexy on Heathcliff, but in real life it's more like a with-holding moody blah. (If you don't get the Heathcliff reference, STOP READING NOW...you are also not for me.) I love travel. but don't do as much of it as I'd like, I like hanging out in the city, feeling the pulse, window shopping, people watching, and just having a good time. I also like hanging at home, with one special person (does that sound as hackneyed when you read it as it did when I wrote it? ugh!), or with friends over for any reason. I talk alot, I have lots of reasons why my way is right, and, though the sexual portion will tell you I like to be dominated, that is only in the bedroom. Onward: I am NOT a pushover. I do NOT want my clothing chosen for me, nor do I wish to live in someone's basement in a box. Cool for you, but not for me.
I am NOT perfect. Here is some of what I would like: a man that really loves me, and is in it for the long run. I want a marriage that is what my sex life is, not one until I find the other;
a man who has his head in real world - reasonable problem solving techniques (never being wrong, yelling, violence,, ummmmm: NO!), a modicum of social graces, no racists, conservatives, bible-thumpers or jerks;
personal hygeine - you wouldnt beLIEVE how often this is a problem. Besides, some of the things you may find you VERY much like about our sex life will depend solely on this;
a healthy, well-adjutsed mind-set - I have been disappointed to find that many Doms are Doms because of some default somewhere else;
and, lastly, though I realize it seems obvious: a man who can get an erection. No sexual dysfunction sufferers please. It may seem old-fashioned, but I like a man who can get and maintain an erection; nothing on the planet like a good hard cock. Not a chemical cock, not a once in a blue moon hard cock, just an, "Oh baby, I love fucking beating you; you look sooo good all tied up for my pleasure. Now take it, suck it you fucking bitch!" cock. 'Nuff said?
the part for me: So, if you STILL want to get with me (yes, a challenge), I dont accept bullshit, and I think that love = being yourself. No wierd voice, pretending, or having to put on the fake 'interested' face when we talk.
the part for you: I like rough sex, being beaten (preferably flogged, leather toys, and spanked open hand but I'll discuss ANYthing), some verbal humiliation (nothing personal, just perjorative terms, bitch, slut, etc, no stupid, worthless, etc), forced fellatio, being slapped, choked, and am intersted in lots of things that I hant tried yet (public play? play rape? who knows what all?). I'm also one hell of a good time outside of the bedroom; fun and funny, sweet and cynical, optimistic but not doe-eyed. I love to talk, exchange ideas, and learn what another person is about.
"...and I guess that's all I've got to say about that..."