shysubbie

My profile shows my current location as Florida, and while I will be moving there soon, I'm not there yet. I changed my location to see what was happening in the area I'm anticipating will be my relocation, and then the system, for whatever reason, wouldn't let me change back to my current location, which is Washington. Sorry to cause confusion. I did do a help request, but who knows when or if it will be corrected.

I've been told I should expand a bit on my profile. I agree, I should. However, I touched on the questions that have been asked of me the most since I came to this site, figuring that maybe these are the things that doms want to know about most. If you're not one of them, please excuse me. My profile was done in a bit of a temper after having six people in one day fail to read the (original) profile, and focus on those very things.

So, first things first (not neccesarily in that order), yes, I'm shy. I try not to be - or at least a little less - in writing and on the internet. But in person I blush, can't think of things to say, have anxiety, all of it. Ah, well, someone will hire me for a chin rest eventually.

Training - I'd prefer to discuss that privately. I'll just say that I've had experience as a sub, bottom, and owned.

While I have nothing against polyamory, and have indeed been extremely happy in such a relationship, at this time I'm looking for an exclusive relationship. I'm definitely not intersted in helping anyone cheat on his wife or girlfriend, nor am I interested in trying to define the difference between "single" and "separated" or "just living together" on the relationship scale. Single is single.

Smoking is a hard, no break, limit. I won't date or play with a smoker. Been there, won't go again.

Anal is another hard, no break, limit. Again, been there, won't go again. Maybe if I get to know someone well enough, I'll tell him why, but the answer will still be the same: No! And yes, it is a deal-breaker for a collar or any other binding relationship.

Long distance relationships are incredibly difficult, in my experience. I'm really not interested in starting a new long distance relationship, but that's not saying I wouldn't be interested in having some long distance friends with similar interests.

And, the last point in my profile, age. So, here's where things go off into weird places. I've had relationships with men as much as 15 years younger than me. While they were fun, and even exciting, and my various appetites were totally sated, there was always that weird little ootz in the pit of my stomach. The first time, I thought it was some kind of stomach virus that kept hanging on, which ended at about the same time as the relationship, so I didn't give it any more thought. I mean, he liked a lot of fast food, so it could have been that, right? The second time, there it was again, only this guy was more of a cook at home kinda guy, and since I was doing the cooking, I figured it wasn't stomach virus. I couldn't figure it out, but then realized I was avoiding my friends so I wouldn't have to 'fess up to dating someone young enough to be my son. Well, i like my current friends a lot, and would miss them a lot if I felt the same way again, so there it is. I just don't feel comfortable with someone outside my age range. And, besides, I like the music, factoids, books, etc., that most of the other people my age like. I like being able to share big-moment memories, the "no ****, there I was" stuff.

So, there you go. My profile explained.

I know there are these long lists of likes and dislikes attached to everyone's profile, so I'd like to highlight a couple of things.

I've had experience of flogging, whipping, etc. Flogging that starts off slow with a soft/thuddy kind of flogger and gradually has a buildup to a good steady warming kind of flogging is wonderful. (*fans self*)

Yes, I like knife play, I love knife play - but not being cut. The feel of the blade against my skin, or flicking off hardened wax, or just touching where it will stimulate the most nerve endings is just amazing. Cutting is.. not.

Waxing is incredibly fun and gratifying, whether the waxing is done to me, or I'm doing it to him. Yes, you! I've known many doms who love the feel of the waxing process, the relaxing handling by a trusted sub, the way the skin feels when the process is over, the bathing after.. Never mind, I'm heading for the cold showers now.

Thanks for reading this. Have a great day!