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shyguym

Shyguy21040
Male Switch, 49, Edgewood, Maryland
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shyguym - Male Dominant, Ontario, Muskoka | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About shyguym

If you are a female sub and hesitant to contact a Dom without prior permission - this is now your permission to contact me. You can also read my story in my journal. although I think age is partly in the mind, I do expect you to be mature and it is very important you be clean - if you want my lips/tongue in some pretty sensitive places, you should not smell

You are my art... yes, I am into sex, but the beauty of a bound submissive is also a big big part of the delight...

before getting into this profile, let me state that I do not indulge in bad language, and though you may, it will lessen my opinion of you - please read all of the profile before contacting me, if I see that you have not, I will not be replying - being right up front - I am married (and that will not change)(nor will I badmouth anyone or try to explain why I am on here) (you may not like that and I understand, but it is what it is - you can move on) - other than that, I am a gentle Dom, in that I love to 'tie and tease' (however, I also like just friends, read my journal entry on that) - not into hurting anyone, but can do a little if you really need that - but DO like a TIGHT SAFE SECURE tie, and once you are tied, you are mine to do with as I please (and I tie securely, you will NOT be able to get free till I wish so!) - tying with ribbons is good, rope fine, leather great, cuffs of steel or nylon, etc, blindfolds and gags, all are fun and I am ready to use any or all, plus of course, if you wish to be in lingeree, or a sexy swimsuit, an Indian maiden outfit, etc etc, that too is wonderful - still, it is YOUR excitement that I feed on so be ready for some longtime teasing! bondage is easy, imagine if you will that I have tied your wrists in front and you are kneeling on the bed in high heels, no bra and just your panties - you scrunch down till your rear rests against your heels - all I have to do it slip the back of those panties over the spikes of your heels, tug your wrists over your head and pull as you tip forward till those lovely nipples brush the sheets and your legs have tilted up as you stretch out on the mattress and with your hands straight above your head, you cannot get back up on your own - you are mine! and the teasing begins...

having noticed that many subs like some discipline, I am able to make things a bit more strict, and the thought of a bound sub over my knees, getting some spanking attention to her buttox is very intriguing (hey, you know the buttox are sexy!) - in addition I should add that I have done hypnotism on a subject and am willing to do so again..

if just bondage, no pain, is your thing, that is great too (actually I prefer that myself, it is the sexy teasing I like best) (ah, perhaps it means you see the art in yourself too!), and I would add that some sexy lingeree, or a sexy costume, perhaps some nylons and for sure some high heels are all visual candy... but the most exciting thing for me is watching you straining at your bonds in excitement while I am either kissing, nibbling, licking, stroking or spanking or pinching your bound form...

you are hogtied (my number one favourite position) or streched firmly on the bed or staked on the ground, or spread in a doorway, or tied to a pole, or tied over a chair or backwards over a table, tied to a tree, wrapped in tape or plastic, and more - that is my art, and you are the centrepiece - sometimes I may wish a simple tie where you are perhaps only tied at wrists and ankles and I am admiring your shapely form, other times I may desire a more complex tie where you are bound at ankles, just below and just above the knees, the top of the thighs (maybe a band around the hipbones), wrists to the waist, below and above the elbows, below and above the breasts (maybe with them harnessed as well), the middle and top of the upper arms, head tilted back, hair tied to keep it there (stretching the neck so smoothly back, throat exposed), in a tight hogtie with hands touching heels, so tight all you can do is squirm in your bonds - and there you stay (in any pose I choose, sometimes moving from one pose to another) while I play, and play, and play with your sexy form (teasing me, teasing you)....

I am not interested in a large group of women, just someone for a friend who discretely shares the interest in this lifestyle and can get together on probably infrequent occasions for some mutually respectful interaction, and is willing to communicate here as well (because it should be friends first and the friendship is the more important interaction)... yep, I did mention respect - I expect it and expect to give it..

Do you want bondage, but for reasons of your own, no sex? I can do bondage without sex, but not without some stroking and touching (and if you agree, the touching includes with a tongue)...

no 'strings attached' (but probably some ribbons or rope or leather or scarfs or chains or cuffs), you are not obligated to do whatever you do not wish, and can end things whenever you choose - a 'contract between sub and Dom' but within those limits, I rule...

now for some thoughts...
I am an experienced Dom, but find those who say they want only experienced Doms (or subs) are limiting themselves - not every 'experienced' Dom is a good Dom, and some inexperienced but natural Doms may be very good - perhaps one might say they are seeking a careful Dom instead?

should any sub wish to exchange viewpoints (or ask questions) about the Dom/sub dynamic, feel free, I will give honest opinions, but remember they are MY opinions and not gospel or necessarily the viewpoints of others

for me as a Top, I do not feel that a sub is a 'nobody', but is an individual who has certain needs, has recognized those needs, and has chosen to follow those needs - it is, in a way, the sub who has the power, for the sub chooses with whom, when, for how long, and how far to interact - in other words (in a proper sub/Dom relationship) the sub GIVES her (or his) submission as a gift to the Dom - the Dom then must do 3 things - 1) ensure the safety of the sub 2) strive for the enjoyment of the sub (and therefor himself or herself) and 3) respect the sub

the Dom may accept the gift of submission, but recognize that the sub is an individual as complex as the Dom and respect that individual, apreciating the sub as much as the sub apreciates the Dom, once the Dom accepts the gift of submission, He (She) will take on the responsibility of directing the 'play' within the limits set..

one last thought is that I am straight only

if you wish to contact me state that you agree that there should be mutual respect in a Dom/sub relationship or you can state that you do not agree that there should be mutual respect, but I feel there should, and will NOT argue the point
to learn more about me, read my journal entries

just HAVE to add that I am not a bisexual switch, but man, they must have a lot of fun, they can play with ANYONE on here! :)

 

I take my tractor into the field, and there is a pair of Mallard dock ducks on "their" duck dock and they see this noisy red monster with round black feet running at them and he says 'I think it's going to EAT us!' and they jump into the pond
by the second pass he is keeping away from the shore I am nearest, but she is getting bold
 by the third pass she is back on the dock and by the 4th he is too
pretty soon she says 'I don't think it eats ducks, strange as it sounds, I think it eats GRASS! and as fast as it does, it poops it out the side!'
after a while, they get so relaxed they lay down and they are maybe napping
then when I am done noisy red running round black feet goes into the big brown box (tractor shelter) and shuts up! (gets their attention after all that noise) they think it must have died..
then out comes a two-legged monster in blue (shirt, jeans) and he says 'it ate noisy red! - it must be REALLY dangerous' and they jump back into the pond
exciting times to be a duck.....

ugly, penniless old man with little sense of humour seeks fun loving, attractive, nubile, young. independently wealthy woman with poor eyesight to share all we have in common...

First Meeting:  (the woman in this story has now found a husband and is happily married - I am glad for her, and she deserves a good life - her thoughts in the story below she told to me after the fact) and NO, I will not give her name

 

they had exchanged messages and chats for several months now, and she said she wanted to come for a visit - she had always dreamed of being bound for sex, but never had the nerve to ask, and was fearful of the result - with this Dom, she  had shared online bondage sex enough times she had given her trust - all was arranged online

she would arrive at the airport Toronto, and would be wearing a long dark coat and carry a leather suitcase

 

he arrived at the airport with a little time, only to realize that the flights from the States came in at a different terminal - a bit of checking found that there was a shuttle, but he was late

she waited, and wondered - she had tried to meet up with a Dom once before, and no one showed - was this a repeat? - a worry, but she had faith in this man, and would wait

by the time he arrived at 'arrivals' in the correct terminal, he was upset and mumbling to himself, would she still be there? ah, a woman in long coat, leather suitcase, and she did look like the picture she had sent - going up to her he was repeating "long coat, leather suticase" - she knew it was him

 

they were in the parking garage quickly and shared their first real kiss, then off to Muskoka in the growing dark, she in the car she had arranged to rent, he in his truck -

getting out of the truck, he took her by the shoulders, and tipped up her chin - looking up, she gasped, never had she seen such a dark clear sky; so many stars! 'I knew you would like that' he said, and she realized he had been paying attention, and did know the kinds of things she would like

he led her to her hotel and after a short visit left, giving her the privacy and time to settle both thoughts and feelings

 

the next morning, he picked her up in the truck, and they were off to a couple of antique shops, and browsed a camping trailer dealership, shared lunch,  enjoyed the Ontario spring scenery, had dinner and went back to her hotel

as agreed, their first sex was vanilla, and afterwards, they just lay and talked for hours

 

the following morning the truck was back, and they were off - to where? she did not know, but there was a canoe in the back...

the lake lay in complete wilderness, about 1 1/2 miles long, a half mile wide - at the far end a small island - it was her first time in a canoe, and she was nervous till they were launched - 'oh' she said 'this is wonderful' as the canoe glided smoothly away from shore

part way down the lake they saw a loon, and with his binoculars she could see babies riding on it's back - she was beginning to feel this was exciting

 

reaching the island, they beached the canoe, and began to explore - close to shore, they could hear the birds chirping on the mainland, and a squirrel chattered it's annoyance

they paused to admire the view, when he backed her against a sapling, holding her wrists behind the tree and pressing his weight against her form, and she squirmed with desire - they shared some kisses, then he backed off - she would have to wait and the desire built

 

on the rocky tip of the island, they found dry sticks, and he built a fire - they shared a peaceful lunch with a view down the lake, then he took her to a ledge where they sat over calm clear waters with fishes below their feet

paddling back to land, they wandered down the logging road a ways, and he pointed out the tracks of Moose - she was nervous then, but excitedly so

 

stopping for dinner, they returned to the hotel, and chatted a bit again, going over the events of the day

talking turned to kissing, kissing turned to petting, and petting lead to removal of clothes

growing excited now, she turned face down on the sheets, and placed her hands behind her back

this was the signal they had agreed on online, the sign she was ready,  and he understood

 

online they had used ribbons (he like the effect of colours and bows), but before coming, she had requested ropes, wanting to be secure

taking a length of purple rope, he doubled it, and passed the fold around a wrist, then wrapped the ends around the other wrist, passed the ends through the middle, and tied off

moving down, he lifted her high-heel clad feet

while he lifted her feet, she secretly tugged, testing the bonds at her wrists - there was absolutely no give

"this guy knows how to tie" she told herself "I can never get out of this" she thrilled "I am completely his - he can do anything to me he wants!" she thought, as she squirmed with need on the sheets

 

tying her ankles, he bent her legs, and adding a rope from the one at her ankles to the one at her wrists, placed her in a snug hogtie

kneeling back he paused to admire her bound form - smooth legs bent over a shapely rear, pulled back arms, thrust back shoulderblades, bunching skin along her spine - a soft warm neck, she was beauty captive and his heart gave a leap - one long heartfelt sigh excaped his lips

at the sound of his sigh, a shiver of lust shot through her frame - "it is good, it will be all right, he is pleased with me!" she thought to herself - she did so want to please and did so want to be desired

 

slipping a silken scarf under her face, he placed a gag, then a second scarf covered her eyes

"ah, so completely his!" she thought - a tingle of fear, yet truly trust - she was fully aroused

many times she had been tied online in this favourite hogtie of his, but this time was real - oh, how thrilling it felt!

 

turning her on her side, he began to caress her breasts while another hand stroked those smooth bound legs, and she squirmed harder in her bonds

gentle lips explored the hair of her mound, and she tried to spread her legs, to no avail, the ropes held fast, and she squirmed harder still

 

finally, reading the expression of passion on her face, he knew she could wait no more, and truly, seeing that passioned expression, HE could wait no longer himself

slipping the hogtie rope free, he lay her legs on the sheets, and turned her face up

gentle hands and gentle lips belied the stern ropes holding her his, and she rocked with his attentions, straining at her bonds till the sheets were damp with her desire, and turning her sideways on the bed till her head tilted over the side, stretching a long smooth neck, he slid his weight over her form

forcing his way between dampened thighs, he entered her canal as his chest pressed into her thrust-up breasts and his hands caressed her neck

"oh, please, squeeze my neck" she thought - a thing she had written she wanted in a message - "will he make me his helpless and powerless slave?"

as his hands did squeeze her neck, she felt a wave of passion rock her from head to toe - "at last, to be taken by a man riven with fever for me" she cried in her thoughts "to be so helpless, yet so desired!" and her orgasm began

feeling the heat of her release, he stiffened and answered with his own hot pulse, filling her with the heat of his release deep inside, and she stiffened in peak

finally collapsing, she weaked on the sheets, and he softened, laying his head on her breasts, holding her close

 

they lay long like that, then - almost reluctantly - he removed her bonds

she slipped by his side, head on his shoulder, his arm around hers, and soft whispers passed between them till they fell asleep

I will never forget this lady, for lady she is -  still and ever friend

 

what brings me back here? well, I am not meeting anyone - but have found a few freinds - it is nice to chat (by that I do not necessarily mean in the chat feature - just exchanging messages - though I can and on rare occasions do use chat)  so OK, I am a bit lonely, and like to share friendship - that is  more important than the kink (do love the kink though)
on the other hand, I can say I am lucky enough to have a pretty good life, and wish the same for you

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