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Male Switch, 21, Novi Sad
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About shycrystalrose
Please read my profile and my journals before attempting to reply. It will save a great deal of time for both of us if what i need and desire is understood from the start.
After the ending of a loving yet dead end vanilla relationship, i decided that maybe it was time to look in other areas and broaden my mind as it was. After posting a couple of ads on a few different "adult" sites i met one person who changed my life in many ways.
He opened the door to what i now know as a D/s lifestyle. We had approx. two wonderful years together as a D/s couple, and even though i am still not sure what happened inside his heart to make him walk away from the whole lifestyle, i have continued the hope that someday i would find someone who will make me feel as complete as i did when in the role of submissive with Him.
i am in no way, shape, or form,,, trying to find a replacement for him,,,,, just a new Dominant. i have been without a TRUE Dominant( not Master--- Dominant) in my life since he and i parted ways approximately 8 years ago. i have accepted the fact that my mind , heart , and soul are somewhat damaged from all this and it will take someone special to help heal that damage. i have grown in many ways, been mentored by some wonderful people, and have learned a great deal of knowledge without having to resort to being physical with a Dom to learn.
i was at one time under the Protection-Tutelage of a kind Domme who is still very dear to me( no she would not be an interference in a relationship) and with whom i still talk with. Some may not like the idea of a submissive having "served" both a Dom and a Domme,,, i can assure You: however that Her and mine relationship is and was not of a sexual nature( she just did not bend that way .
i have received some very pleasant lettrs and correspondence from several "Gentleman" and we do correspond sporadically. i have just finally decided to stop looking,,, at 48 with two grandchildren,,, i am fooling myself if i believe that there is time left for a serious 24/7 relationship. Married men are welcome to write , but nothing will come of it, if i have to give 100% , i need 100% back. somewhat close to my own age would also be a nice factor as i do not wish to play the second fiddle with younger women, nor do i think a poly family is the correct way for me to go.
Born in the early sixties,, i have a very sound and strict set of old fashioned morals. To those that are clueless ,,,,, no sex on the first and probably not the second date. Sex comes after,, kinda like desert. Get to know me as a woman and person while i get to know You as a man and person,,,, from there what happens happens.
On a closing note i ask politely that you NOT contact me with graphic pics of other women in various stages of undress/bondage, as it truly does nohing for me and is in fact a turn off, and that You be somewhat geographically close, the closer the better. i am in Collage and wish to finish and am also helping with the care of my elderly father, also with the running of his home. i know this has been a long read and if You have gotten this far i invite You to also read some of my journal entries,,, while they are not all my words, i find a lot of truth in them. Money does not impress me nor do material things,,,, the smile i find in Your heart and/or the knowledge that You are sincere is what pushes my buttons the fastest.
Yes the pics are a bit dated, however still fairly acurate. time and acceptance of ME,,,, gets recent photos,,,, we all have to be careful for one rason or another and while mine is not family( hell they all know what i am about) privacy is still important. |
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a lot of things have been happening in my life,,,, trying to help raise my grandchildren and get my life on track,,,,, still interested in finding that special someone,,, but have to re-vamp how to do that with two little ones |
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anyone that does the facebook thing check out the following profile
Truly awesome and some even get the blood of a 7 yr celibate stirred up
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It is truly a shame that anyone should have to clarify what is written somewhere in very plain and easy to read english. For those of you that do not have a fairly decent grasp of the english language , i wish to take a moment of your time and clarify something.
i am a submissive this is true, i am not YOUR submissive so please respond with the respect You would wish returned to You.
i do not have "relocatable" checked or listed on my profile,, nor does it say " i am submisive so feel free to adress me in any fashion you wish",,,,
yes i am a submissive,
yes i am seeking a Dom with whom i can build a 24/7 relationship that will be an artfully blended combination of vanilla and kink
i do not mind someone who has children part time or full time in their life, i do however not wish to share with another submissive(poly) or have to wait for a spare moment away from a vanilla wife.
no i dont wish to see your cock before we have exchanged any type of correspondance, nor does a profile with a woman splayed for all to see do anything for me.
no i do not wish to hear from anyone that is so far away the only thing they would remotely ( and i do mean a small chance here) get is a penpal,,
If there are any questions still floating in the mindsof those that are having trouble with understanding my profile,,,,,, send a POLITE letter or message and ask POLITELY. yes i said that loudly,,, yup i truly did,, i am a submissive but i am not yours so dont talk down to me, talk to me in a demeaning manner or start with the " ALPHA MALE" attitude right from the start it is a very great big TURN-OFF.
if i just stepped on toes,, or bruised an ego or two ,, then good , you have gotten what you deserved |
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Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past~~~~stop planning the future~~~~stop trying to figure out precisely how we feel~~~~stop deciding with our mind what we want our heart to feel~~~Sometimes we just have to go with........."Whatever happens-happens"
unknown author |
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I believe that everything happens for a reason. people change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you an appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together
unknown author |
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A women is often measured by the things she cannot control, by the way her body curves or doesnt. By where she is flat, straight or round. she is measured 36-24-26 inches ages and numbers, by all the outside things that dont ever add up to who she is on that inside. And so if a women is to be measured let her be measured by the things she can control, by who she is and who she's trying to become because as every woman knows measurements are only statistics and statistics lie.
Very true words!!!!!
author-unknown |
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