shybunnyandAJ

Female Submissive, 33, wp, Colorado

Female Switch, 37

Female Switch, 44, thatcham

~smiles gently~ Hello everyone. I hope you are all well and having fun.       When Master first decided that we were joining collarme. I was very scepitcal, I did not know what to expect so felt uncomfortable. I am pleased we joined and stayed.       Over our time here we have meet some unfriendly and impolite people as I am sure we all have, but amoungest those we would rather not associate with we have found a few a genuinely kind,considerate and friendly people. It is a pleasure and a joy to know them and call them friends.    Of those who have made the effort to meet us half way and got to know us a little, there is one in particular I need to thank. He has listened to what I have had to say both on my low days and my happier days. He has never sat in judgement and has continually offered genuine and sincere support and advice. Some of that advice has made me sit up and look at myself and life in a different more positive light. His honesty and willingness to say what needs to be said is refreshing and gratefully recieved, even though sometimes it is hard to hear. You have my full consideration and respect. I hope that in the coming months you will consider me still worthy of your time, efforts and friendship. The gentleman most certainly will know to whom I am refering. Thank you very much for the friendship you have given and the friendship you continue to offer.   Love and Respect shy         Master you are the light in my life and have been so for many years. I can not imagine life without you. I love you Master very much. Thank you for takeing me, for caring and protecting me and for all those other things you have given and helped me with over the years we have been together. Master it is a pleasure and an honour to belong to you . THANK YOU Yours always shy.

I was talking to someone this morning about some things, when he asked a question that took me by surprise. He asked me if I was With my Master because it was the easy path. Now before people begin muttering. I thought it was direct and honest two qualities I apprieciate a lot. He was thinking it and so he asked, I see no wrong in that. You did take me by surprise though my friiend, I have not been asked about my Master such as that for many years, and certainly not that question. I can tell you this my friend I have never taken the easy path in my life on anything. I always seem to bypass the easy path and go for the hardest path I can find. People have argued I do this to cause myself pain. Maybe in recent years some of those people have had a point, but only in regards to somethings other things I have chosen to ignore. My Master and I have been together for 16 years now. He is my life partner, my lover and my best friend, as well as my Master. Everyone that has met Master and I have always commented on how devoted we are to each other. A friend of ours overseas whom unfortunately we have not had the good fortune to meet face to face yet, stated that it obvious how devoted and in love I am with my Master. When asked to explain his comment he said you only have to listen to the way you talk about him and  look at how write about him to see it is obvious that My Master means the world to me. We are a very close couple and neither of us would have it any other way.  I met my Master after a period in my life that was very painful. I was very unsure of gettng involved and so I ran. Master did not follow me he just stayed on the side lines and waited. Eventually I went to see a clever wise old man I knew, my Grandad. I was sure he would tell me exactly what I should do. Oh was I wrong! My Grandad married my Grandma in 1918 and they were married for 75 years, until my Grandma passed away. My Grandad I went for out on to the hills were I had wondered and read for most of my younger childhood years. I explained to him I was afraid of taking the risk, what if it went wrong. I expected a straight yes/no answer from him as I usually got. Only this time i got some very well considered,wise words instead. Words that had stood the test of time, as that was how grandma and himself had measured their feeling for each other. Grandad just said no one can make this decision for you. it was down to me and me alone to choose. He just told me the following things.  If you get up in the mornings and the first thing you think of is him, then you should be by his side. If you look in his eyes and you find if it difficult to look away, then you belong with him.  If when you see him walking towards down the street your heart beats fast, then you should go to him. If everytime you see him you can not help smiling regardless of how you are feeling inside your self, he is the man for you, If everytime his hand touches you you feel as though you have fire seeping through your skin, go to him. Though perhaps the most confusing thing Grandad said that day was the following statement.  You know you love the person you are with if you can sit hour after hour in the same room and feel comfortable with the silence. It was some years later before I truely understood the significance of his words. I left that day confused and somewhat shaken that I had not gotten the answer I had expected.  Some weeks Later Master contacted me to ask how I was and I asked him if he would like to meet for lunch. I had found that I had been thinking of Master quite a lot, so thought it would help to make up my mind. It certainly did! As soon as I saw Master pull up out side my heart started pounding so fast I thoght I would faint. i could not help smiling, and I was crying to. I looked at him and that ache I had felt for weeks was gone. As Master wrapped his arms around me I knew this was where I wanted and needed to be, this was where I belonged. I asked Master never to let me go, and he told me I was never to run from him again. Well we 16 years on, Master has never let me go and I have not run from him again. Yes 16 years later I still feel all those feelings my Grandad told me about, and now I understand about the comfortable silence. The only words of cauion my Grandad spoke that day was this. If you should lose that comfortable silence or two or more of the other feelings then it will be time for you to walk away, as it is over and you will only get hurt.  I remember these words and I am grateful and very happy that Master and I have not lost those feelings. I hope these words will one day help someone else, and allow them to be lucky enough to find the very special kind of relationship that I have found with Master. The only sad part about this is I never did tell my Grandad how grateful I was for giving me such kind and wise advice, before he passed away. Well if there is anyone out there thinking I realy must go and say .... to..... then go and do it do not put it off. Well to my Friend that dared to ask the question. Thank you for voicing your question because had you not this entry would not have been written and those wise words would have stayed locked in my head. I hope this has helped answer your question. If not please contact me. Have a nice day. shy.

Well Good morning,  I hope everyone is well and having fun. I am pleased to say that I was pleasantly surprised yesterday. I have been having problems with some of my mail on this site, which meant that I have not been able to reply to all the nice messages that people had sent. I reieved a batch of late mail yesterday amongst which were some very pleasant messages. I promptly replied to all of these messages apologising for not replying quicker. I have found amongst these messages some very pleasant, polite Dominant gentlemen.  This is a very quick entry for those gentleman. Thank you very much gentleman you are helping me restore my belief that there are still polite, kind gentleman in the Uk.  Over the last few weeks there have been a couple of such gentleman who have kindly been discssing some questions that have a appeared for my Master and I. One gentleman in particular I need not name him as he knows who he is has been particularly kind, considerate, helpful and generous with his time. To you my friend I say a very big thank you. I can not thank you enough, and although our journey is far from over you have helped I believe put us on the right track, and will I hope continue to converse with us. Well I will wish you good day shy.

There is no need for me to mention a name, as the gentleman knows who he is. I am very fortunate to have met the most, friendly,  polite, considerate, caring yet dominant man, besides my Master I will ever meet. I came across your journal entry, it was light-hearted and friendly,and made me smile as I read it. I sent a message just to say it was delightful  to see such a light-hearted amusing entry and  our correspondance began. It is a shame we live half way across the world from each other. There may come a day when we will be able to meet face to face, we can but hope. You made the effort to find out what my Master was hoping I would gain from such a correspondance, and from that time you have ensured our correspondance have been directed to achieve those aims. You offered your help, which I am pleased to say was accepted, and so you became involved in the next level of my training.  I thankyou for considering me worth such effort, and I will do my upmost not to let you and my Master down.  My thoughts are with you. best wishes Shy.   I hope that in the near future my Master and I will be fortunate enough to meet people in the UK that will become friends.

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