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I am also still with my current dom. Our D/s relationship ends when I move. He knows I am on here talking to people and he knows we will talk about sexual things. I don't mind talking about experiences but I am NOT here to have cyber sex with you.
I am also not here for wham, bam and thank you, ma'am type meetings. If I ever meet you in real life, the first time will be at a very public place with the knowledge that I am going home alone after.
I am moving mid to late November but just wanted to "meet" some people and see what the scene is like. I have been an AmeriCorps VISTA for the last two years and my second year is ending soon so I am making the big leap and just up and moving to DC.
I don't know exactly what I am looking for yet in terms of BDSM. When I move, I will no longer be collared to the dom I have been with for the last 5 years. That will take some adjustment. He was my first dom and I have never had to navigate the scene alone so part of me wants to jump right into another LTR, part of me wants to run screaming and hide and the last part just wants to meet people on a friendly level.
I am pretty open online. I will be a nervous quiet thing if you meet me in real life. Once I am more comfortable, you will wish that I go back to the quiet thing. The nervous thing is always there.
I am pretty fluffy. Not BBW but not anywhere near skinny. I am not very girly. If you are looking for a service oriented sub who will cook and clean for you, that is really not me. I don't mind doing my part in cleaning and you should thank me for not cooking for you.
I am sarcastic and a smartass. It is genetically coded in me. If you don't like laughing, then I am not the one for you. I guess if/when I am looking for someone, they will be assertive, warm and snuggly, who will respect my few limits but push my boundaries because I am shy and nervous and will always want to stay in the comfort zone, even once I know you. I am just always afraid I am going to do something wrong or poorly.
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