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sfknobhill - Male Submissive, San Fran/Petaluma California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About sfknobhill

Want to feel and taste the knot.
Favorite movie scene is the ball beating in Casino Royale.
Have been incredibly hungry for piss - anywhere!

If you're in the San Francisco bay area and like one of the toys I've described in my journal let me know - I could be conviced to help construct!

I had to alter the picture because of a complaint from a tightass. If you want to see the original or others let me know.

I am available part time and am interested in ongoing realtionships that do not include a romantic involvement. I am very submissive and enjoy domination and humiliation. Want to see what Taboos I can break! More information freely given upon request. Would be very interested in servicing one or more doms through proxy with another dom. You initiate contact with someone and the two of you decide what it is you want to have me do, I then report locally and submit as directed - just a new thought.

Would like to try felching!!

I recently provided this for a friend:
A friend asked me about this so I dug up some old stuff - this can be a fun event - especially during a celebration of some sort.

1) There is a set time limit - usually 24/48/72 hours
2) There is a designated bottom - usually someone unknown to the contestants and not interesting to the contestants
3) There is a host or coordinator. If a host this is a person who can have visitors at all hours. If a coordinator this person monitors the event.
4) The winner is the one who fucks the most during the time period, in this case fucking must include ejaculation.
5) Each contestant provides his own condoms (male or female type)
6.) Contestants have open access to the bottom - meaning round the clock, the bottom will service each contestant whenever they desire
7) Contestants "sign off" on the bottom after "getting off"
8) Contestants condoms are retained in individual containers until the end of the contest
9) At the end of the contest the amount of ejaculate is compared for each contestant - the one with the most is the runner up - if it is the winner he becomes the Grand Champion
10) At the end the ejaculate is then put in a glass and the bottom must drink it down.

Optional - if agreed ahead of time by the contestants they are free to do anything they wish besides fucking the bottom.

In the interest of discosure, I am HIV+

For this first session Ethan would treat it as a buffet, letting Mark sample some of everything there was to offer.  Ethan had thought about making Mark earn some of the items but decided not for this first one, for this first session let Mark have it all, then he could withhold the things Mark like since Mark would know that it was available, just not yet.

After the initial move Ethan would simply bring Mark to his house and let him in the front door, once inside the front door he would put a blindfold on Mark, open the medicine bottle and tell Mark to inhale, then would come the one-word command “Strip”.  With the first item of clothing removed Ethan guided Mark’s hand to a paper bag he had and say “Clothes go in here”.  With Mark naked he was given some more of the medicine bottle and told to get upstairs and “Clean Out”.  Mark had to feel his way along to the bathroom and only when he was ready to get in the tub would Ethan remove the blindfold.  Every few steps Mark would feel his balls beaten by Ethan.  Mark was given one more hit from the medicine bottle and told “You have five minutes”.  Mark was disoriented but rushed to do as he was told.

While Mark was in the shower Ethan took the keys and went out to Mark’s car.  Ethan knew Mark often traveled with a special kit and this time was no exception.  Ethan easily found the bag in the trunk and brought it back upstairs.

When Ethan got back upstairs he told Mark to get out of the tub.  Mark reached for a towel and received a quick gut punch along with “I didn’t tell you to dry off”.  The blindfold went back on, another hit from the bottle, and then Ethan put on ankle and wrist restraints, he clipped the restraints together wrist to wrist and ankle to ankle.  Ethan looked Mark over and had him turn around.  He decided he would place temporary ownership tattoos on Mark, one on his front right shoulder and the other in the small of the back just above the beltline.  Ethan let Mark stand there dripping as he prepared the tattoos.  The tattoos were easy enough to apply, just remove the paper on one side, attach and then let a sponge sit on the other side for 60 seconds until the paper slid off the tattoo.

There were periodic hits from the bottle along with periodic hits to the balls.  Now Ethan put some lube on the end of Mark’s cock and slid a catheter down the cock.  Ethan let the catheter slide almost all the way in, feeding it gently.  When there was only about two inches left Ethan stopped, bent the drain tube over on itself and put a binder clip on it to keep it shut, then Ethan filled the syringe with sterile saline and inflated the balloon.  Now Ethan could take off the syringe and very gently pull on the catheter until he felt the resistance of the balloon coming against the inside of the bladder.  Ethan smiled, he like knowing that he now had control over Mark’s bladder, letting it fill and empty at the Master’s whim, as an added bonus there would be extreme burning the first several times Mark urinated when the catheter was removed.  Ethan felt it was fitting that Mark’s cock have a catheter in it since there was no other use for his cock, Ethan certainly wasn’t going to let Mark cum.

I thought for a nice break it would be worth while to take the advice from those on this board and help fill out what a good BDSM Dom should carry in his bags as well as what the sub should carry.

 

Let's vote on each item as much as we like and maybe give an alternate view

For the Top, my first two items would be a cell phone that is charged but off in case of emergency

The second item for the top would also be an emergency item, bolt cutters, as large as will fit.

What are some other things the Dom should carry?

How about the sub, ideas for him?

My first idea, keeping with safety, is medical chart, food stores (ensure, etc.), a bucket to carry everything in, and to collect his piss.

 

Next?

The first episode would need to start with a surprise attack; Ethan would look for his opening whenever he and Mark were together.  Ethan figured he only needed about 30 seconds to make his first move, after that he could wait until later to really take over.  The place of the first attack needed to be someplace that was reasonable solid and private; an elevator, a parking structure stairway, even an empty corridor or bathroom.  For this first session the goal was to seize Mark, make him submit and break him.  It wouldn’t be enough to break him once; he would have to stay broken until released.

The second session would build on the first and add a bit more complexity and a lot more submission.  For this second session Ethan planned on taking Mark to the same local play space.  To keep things bouncing along Ethan decided the third session would be in his basement where he could set some things up.  And finally, for a fourth session it would be a multi-day session that would completely symbolize submission and ownership.

Now Ethan turned his attention to exactly how he was going to seize Mark.  The first thing Ethan did was prepare the brown bottle.  Ethan took some tissue and made a wad, he placed it on top of the brown bottle and let the bottle soak the tissue a bit, now he put the tissue in an empty medicine bottle he saved for just this use.

Ethan decided that when Mark the opportunity presented itself he would push his left forearm against Mark’s throat and force him HARD against the wall, at the same time would come a gut punch, not a little punch to the tummy, but one to show he meant it, Ethan would aim to put his right fist through Mark and into the wall and finally a hard knee to the groin should have Mark on the floor – that would make a statement.  Nothing gentle here, Ethan knew this was his big chance and he had to make it good.  He knew that if he couldn’t pull this off or get someone to help him pull this off it would be over.  Once on the floor Ethan would lean over and say to Mark “Now it starts”.

It was one of those uniquely San Francisco winter days, sun shining and weather that allowed you to walk around in shirtsleeves during the day but needed a coat at night.  Ethan sat in his chair pondering how he wanted to proceed.  Mark would be in town for some errands and Ethan planed on hijacking Mark for at least the evening.  The two had known each other for many years and in the beginning things were hot, very hot, but for who knows how many years there was nothing, flat, zero.

 

The last time they did anything Ethan quickly came doggy style and that was it – Mark was completely unsatisfied.  This time Ethan had thought about it and was damn sure he wasn’t going to let that happen again.  Having listened carefully to Mark over the past years Ethan figured out Mark’s trigger points.  He knew that Mark liked it best when he became nothing more than a piece of property for a Master’s pleasure.  Ethan also knew that it meant more than just telling Mark – “OK – you’re my property”.  Ethan would have to take this property; he would have to seize it, own it, control it, and break it.3

 

Ethan realized he had a chance to regain some serious playtime with an old playmate.  They hadn’t played in years and to make up for that Ethan would need to set a series of events in motion.  He needed to orchestrate these events so that they flowed and would keep Mark interested AND submissive.

 

To make sure that things went well Ethan figured on using a 90-70-50-30 strategy.  This strategy was based on focusing that much of the effort on Mark’s needs each session.  The first session would be virtually entirely focused on breaking Mark; Ethan would put aside the things he wanted for later.  The second session would be focused heavily on Mark, first on breaking him and then on using him.  The third session would be a fairly even split and from then on the sessions would be about breaking Mark right off the start, using him for Ethan’s pleasure, and keeping him broken.

Still looking for good scene that involves scrotal infusion!

Seriously looking for two scenes.  Deep throating someone who keeps going even while I'm gagging, etc.  Felching or sucking the cum out of another's ass.  There is another scene but I can't talk about it.

Finally got the supplies for infusion!!!
Had a dilema - two Masters, one wanted my ass and balls clean shaven, the other wanted them natural.  Finally worked out a plan - I report to the one who wants things natural first.  At some point he uses duct tape from my ass cheeks up to the top of the scrotum, leaving a tab at the ass end.  He does two or three tapes.  When he's ready he rips them off and I'm "clean shaven", if not he repeats until finished.  Then he douses me with a good dose of rubbing alcohol.

The catch is I end up having to report to the second Master immediately before any new growth starts up!
Lately I've wanted to try scrotal infusion - just have to find the right person to play with once they're nice and big.
This is something that happened a long time ago.  The Dom I was with got me out of bed about 3 a.m. made me put on some pants and boots, no shirt, and took me to the nearby park, one that had a fair amount of isolated spaces.  When he got where he wanted to be he took out a blindfold, had me put it on and put a handcuff on one wrist.  He then had me raise my hands and ran the handcuff over a branch that was about 7' off the ground and about 5' out from the tree.  Next he undid my pants and left me standing there, hands cuffed overhead, blindfold on, and he went to a comfy spot and watched the entertainment for about an hour.
Easy bondage toy for today - I refer to it as a bondage board.  Part of the beauty of this is that it can be easily stored under most any bed!  This is a 2' x 2' piece of plywood mounted on a 2x4 frame with 9 eyebolts.  You will need a 2'x2' piece of plywood (about $10), a 10' long 2x4 (less than $5), about 2 dozen flat head wood screws that are 3" long, and 9 eye screws that are at least 2" long (about $5).  Have the lumber yard cut a 10' length of 2"x4" into four pieces that are 22.25" and one piece that is 20.5".  Get about 25 drywall screws that are 3.5" long.  The only tool you aboslutely need is a screwdriver, but if you are able to drill pilot holes for the screws it will make your work go a lot faster and easier.  Now place two of the longer 2X4's at a right angle to each other making an L that is 24" on one leg and 22.5" on the other leg, screw these two pieces together with two screws.  Place the plywood on top and screw the plywood onto the 2x4's but don't screw in the center or corners.  Place your screws about 1" in from the edge so they will be cented on the plywood and screw until the flat head is flush with the plywood.  You should only need 4 screws and they should be 6" from each edge.  Add a third piece of the 22.25" 2x4, screw to the existing 2x4" and then to the plywood, again 6" from each edge, finish with the last of the longer 2x4's.  The short piece goes right down the center and will need two screws to hold it in place - 6" from each edge.  Now all that is left is to screw the eye screws onto the top of the board - one in each corner, one at the center of each side, and one dead center.  With this board the possibilities of how you can restrain somebody are incredible.  A word of caution - resist the urge to use any bungee cords - if they spring loose they can do serious damage to the person who is restrained. 
This toy is relatively easy but is for the dedicated!

There is a cement form called a sonotube - you may have to search for it a bit.  these come in diameters starting at 6" and increasing in 2" increments, the lengths are 3', 6', 8', 10'.  don't count on Lowes or Home Depot carrying anything longer than 3'.

With these forms you'd be able to install eye bolts in the form (use very long eyebolts), spaced appropriately, and then fill with concrete - makes for a nice bondage/whipping post out in the back!
This is something that actually happened!

I was sleeping next to the Master, at about 4am he gave me a share slap across the balls and told me to get up, go down to the panhandle and get a piece of a tree.  This was in San Francisco at Page and Central - the Panhandle is a block away across Oak - a major street.  In order to get what he wanted I had to go about a block into the park.  I got out of bed and reached for my pants when he told me - No, go as you are!  To say the least traveling a total of four blocks buck naked in San Francisco was a bit of a push - I'm happy to say I was able to return with a branch and crawled nervously back into the bed!
This one is from bootsonyrface - I owe him and will post the details of the payment another time!

Stripped him naked. Put a spreader bar between his ankles, a collar round his neck, and chained his arms behind him. I then pulled a chain from the d ring on the slave's collar to the spreader. The slave was bent over. Then I rammed a dildo with a handle up his ass. I pulled him out to my buddy's co-ed garden party. The slave stumbled around with his ass in the air among the guests. The ladies laughed. And some of the guys would grab the handle of the dildo and fuck him for a few strokes. Of course the guys and one of the ladies each gave the slave a good lashing with my riding crop. Good time was had by all.

Easy hobby entry today - have a fun one for tomorrow!

had a Dom who took me into the leather store, walked me over to the dildos and made me drop my pants.  He then carefully went through the dildos, comparing each one to me until he found the one closest to my cock.  He had me pull up my pants, paid for the dildo and we left.  A few minutes later he took the dildo out of the bag and threw it down the street with the command "Fetch".  He allowed me to walk/run to the dildo but I could only touch it with my mouth and I had to bring it back to him, kneel in front of him, and wait for him to take it from me.  Repeated the process.
Next entry for my new hobby!

For this one the slave is restrained on the floor.  There are two pulleys, one directly above his balls and the other directly above his chin.  A parachute is attached to the balls and a cord extends from the parachute and through the two pulleys, ending in a loop about 1 foot down from the second pully.  A chain is extended from the loop to crotch height.  At the end of the chain a plastic jug is attached.  The jug is used to take the piss of whoever is there.  If the jug gets filled it is taken off and reattached higher on the chain with a second jug replacing the first, and so on.  If the pisser "misses" the jug it will land on the face - or wherever.
I've decided to start a new hobby - collecting scenes that turn me on.  with a very few exceptions I plan on sharing each one on here.

This is a complete rewrite of how to make a closet glory hole.  I?ve simplified the instructions.

First, measure the closet door width, run a tape measure down the entire length to find the narrowest point in the door.  Normally the door will be the same width all the way down but you want to verify this.  Subtract ¼? from the narrowest width ? I will be referring to this as door width.

Second, measure the closet door height on both the hinge side and the knob side of the door and record the smaller number ? I will be referring to this as door height.

Third, there is a set of boards that run around the inside of the closet frame and prevent the door from going past a closed position ? these are called door stops.  Measure how much of the frame extends past the inside edge of the door stop ? on my door it is 1 ¾?.  Take this number and subtract ??.  The ?? will be the channel you will be making.  Again for my door the number I get is 1 ¾? less ?? equals ??.  This is good because I?ll be able to use ½? x ¾? stock to make the channels.  If the number you get is less than ¾? then you will need to use ½? x ½? stock.

The instructions I give will be for a glory hole set at 30 ½? above the floor and 6? wide by 6? high.

You will need to buy ½? x ¾? stock in four pieces ? 2 pieces that are 8? less than the door height, and 2 pieces that are door width (remember door width is actual door width less ¼?).

For an 80? door you will also need 11 or 12 pieces of 1? x 6? lumber (generally whitewood or pine is the least expensive) that are door width.

You will also need 2 pieces of 1? x 6? lumber that are 6? long, and two pieces that are calculated as follows:  Take the door width and subtract 18?, now take the number you get and divide it in two.  For my 30? x 80? door the calculation would be 30? ? ¼? ? 18? = 11 ¾?, 11 ¾? divided by 2 = 5 ??.

In summary, for my 30x80 door ? my lumber is: ½? x ¾? 2 pieces each 72? and 2 pieces each 29 ¾? and 1?x6? 12 pieces that are 29 ¾?, 2 pieces that are 6?, and 2 pieces that are 5 ??.

You will also need some finish nails that are not more than 1? long (they could be 1 ¼? if you like) and a nail set.

Finally you will need 4 band-aids that are no wider than ½? (trim them if you need to).

To put this all together, take one of the shorter ½? x ¾? and place band aids on each end on the ½? sides, these act as little cushions to give a little extra wiggle room.

Now, tack the board onto the side door frame with two of the band-aids pressed lightly against the door stop and the board slid all the way to the top of the frame ? you will only need one nail and don?t drive it all the way in.

Take one of the 72? boards and put it against the door frame, resting on the floor and running up the inside of the door frame, press this lightly towards the board you just tacked in place.  Place a finishing nail about 1? down from the top of the 72? board and drive it most, but not all the way in.

Remove the spacer board, slide it to the bottom of the frame, and tack the bottom of the 72? board in place.  You should be able to take any of the other boards and run them easily up and down the channel you just made.  If the spacing is correct go ahead and put nails in about every 12? but don?t drive them all the way in.

Repeat the process on the other side of the door frame.  You should now have two channels, one on each side of the door frame starting 8? below the top of the frame and running continuously down to the bottom of the frame.

Slide 5 of the 1? x 6? boards into the channels, letting them rest on the floor, one above the next.

Put a band-aid on the door frame just above the stack of wood.  Place the calculated lengths (5 ?? in my example) on top of the stack of boards with the smooth sides on the top and bottom.  Place one of the short pieces of ½? x ¾? on top of this piece so the two cut edges are flush with each other and the stock width and board widths are the same.  Tap in two finishing nails.  Do the same thing with the other calculated board on the other side, next to the frame ? remember to put in the band-aid.

Gently lift the assembly you just made out of the channels, turn it over and run it back down the channels.  Take the band-aids off the other short piece of ½? x ¾? stock and place it on top of the assembly with the two cut edges flush on each side and nail in place with two finishing nails.

You now have the two calculated pieces held together and separated by 18?.  Take one of the 6? lengths of 1? x 6? and slide it in next to one of the calculated pieces so that the smooth edge of the 6? piece is next to the cut edge of the calculated piece.  Attach with two finishing nails.  Repeat with the second 6? piece.

Again, gently slide the assembly up and out, turn it over and slide it back down so that you can put four more finishing nails in ? two into each of the 6? pieces.  This final assembly should be the door width (less the ¼?) and have a 6? x 6? square hole in the center.

Now slide the remaining 1? x 6? pieces into the channels on top of the glory hole to see that they all fit.  You may or may not want to have a 6? ? 8? gap at the top.

If everything is working, take the pieces out of the channels, remove all the band-aids, and drive in any protruding finishing nails using the nail set.

Upgrade 1:  Get two handles that are less than 6? from end to end as well as shallower than the depth of the door stop, mount them on one of the boards for something to hold onto while you are using the glory hole.

Upgrade 2:  Replace the inside door knob with a spacer of some sort so that the door knob does not protrude into the closet.

Upgrade 3:  Drill a hole in the center of the bottom board so that you can run a cord from a ball stretcher, through the hole and up to a good height for you and thus give the slave inside some ?encouragement?

Upgrade 4:  Attach a locking device so that the slave cannot take apart the glory hole unless you have unlocked it ? this can range from a simple padlock on each side of the top board to something more artistic.

 

Hope this helps.


If you are nearby and have the right "incentive" I'll be happy to install this for you!
Now have a couple of straight guys who use me as a stand-in.  They have me come over, give them a blow job, then leave.  If they're feeling expecially frustrated they may take it out on my balls or ass.
Have been having a very strong desire for an ongoing piss scene and/or fisting scene.  Would like to see it happen.
Have been having a very strong desire for an ongoing piss scene and/or fisting scene.  Would like to see it happen.
Well, I did the oyster thing - raw oyster up the ass at the beginning of a session, session finale was getting fucked good and hard - breaking the oyster all over the place inside me and then feeling it ooze out as I sat on the toilet.  Interesting but not all that great.
Lately I've had this overwhelming desire to go through some meaningful degradation.  There are three core scenes to this, either alone or in some combination.

In one I have a chain about 8 ' long padlocked around my neck and the other end to a post or such.  No toilet, just a bucket.  A couple of blankets for the night.  No way to avoid whatever is coming my way - showing friends the new toy, circle jerk, much more.  This goes on for several days as I devolve over time.

In another the top ends up pissing in me in three places (using a bardex and a cath) as well as poring some of his piss over me while he's doing this .  Could be more than one top.

The third has the top saving some of his own cum (freezing it a couple days ahead of time).  Then he carefully cleans out his ass and puts the cum up his ass for me to eat out.

What do you think?  Would appreciate feedback.

What would you do if you could get away with anything non-violent?
Today should be fun.  I'm free most of the day and will be having an intense session with two or more guys (I really don't know) later.  They've read my fantasy and are interested in seeing how much of it will happen.  I'm curious what parts the'll pick up on.

I'm looking for an intense domination/humiliation scene - especially the humiliation part.  Any interest?  My humiliation limits are pretty high and I'm always willing to expand most of the other limits.  Latest humiliation idea was having an oyster shoved up the ass before going out.  Other ideas include going out drinking with an unplugged cath so I can't help but "leak".  From there it starts to get kinky!

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