Wow, I just read a sub's profile and I had to comment about it.  He had two lines of how he is new and how cute he is but then he goes on to say if you want to exchange a few emails you are not a real domme.b He wants to instantly chat over the phone or meet in person because he is very busy and he has no time to waste.

All I have to say to that is "WOW". I can understand letting people know about your needs and to be honest I do prefer it. It helps me quickly figure out if we are compatible but this guy is over the top. I would love to chat with a few dommes who actually took the time to meet up with this person. I would if he is for real or is he's a poser? Because nothing in that profile sounded like a sub but more like a horny guy looking for a quickie.

It's been a while since I posted an entry into my journal but I just had to ask why are so many subs/slaves pushing to meet after one hello?  It used to be up to the domme to set the pace on  how things  progressed in a Domme/sub relationship. Now  most subs/slaves will ask to meet in their first message. It has to be that  most of those guys are not real subs or slaves just horny guys who are not into the lifestyle but they are hopping to find a quick booty call.  

Judging from my experiences in the last few months, majority of these" time wasters" will read a domme's profile, pretend that they are into whatever you are looking for but when you try to chat with them they cannot answer any basic questions.  Enviably, they will get frustrated and they will admit they are just  looking for kinky sex.  For some reason they think it's easy to get from a domme?! Like I would meet and fuck a guy without seeing a photo or at least have a conversation or ten!

I don't know what other domme's do on this site but I can  honestly say that if you are looking for:

1. A quick booty call
2. Thinking we will meet with an empty profile or
3. No picture
4. Not chatting for a bit
5. Or chemistry
6. Not an honest and sincere sub or slave

YOU ARE NOT HOOKING UP WITH ME!!!       PLEASE BELIEVE ME!!

I am not the be all end all here. I'm sure there are thousands of dommes here on this site all beautiful and a lot younger than myself. But what I can say with certainty is that I love being a domme. It is in my blood and I am very good at what I do (I'm very good). That is why I am so picky, I have had very good subs and slaves in the past but I have to admit that the ones I had chemistry and I click with turned out to be the best I have ever had!!!

Start of the new week. Hope this week was better than last week. Starting on Friday I can relax and pants is not an option. I am so forward to a week off.  Hopefully, I can get into some trouble.  Who wants to volunteer???

Boy this week was a long one. I had an old friend come back into the picture. Work friend moving away. And me on my 10th day working out (Yeah!!). I'm on a mission.  Getting toned up and naked lol. I think I look damn good for 43 but I can look better. I want my 6 pack back!! Any subs or slaves have any tips for me?  I have met some interesting people here. Haven't really been looking as hard as should but working and school is getting to be much. I did have an headache this week. I went against my better judgement an lets say a big waste of time. But moving on, maybe I should find a sub or slave to handle different functions to make my life a lot easier? Or maybe I should look for a female sub /slave? What do you think girls? Maybe, I can click with a female. Just a thought.

First day of my five days off.  I love my job!!  I was seeing who was online today and I noticed how many guys change their profile.  Not just updating it, I mean change from Sub to a Dom or from Dom to Sub.  I find it very odd.  I wonder if it's because they don't find success as one then they switch to the other???  Well, I hate to break the news I am a Domme. That is why I never really gone out with other Doms.  I think there would be too much of a power struggle. Oh well just a thought.

Its so so difficult  to find a real sub or slave here. Nothing but fakers and liars. Time wasters really annoy me. I would hope to find a true sub or slave not some horny guy chatting to have jack off material. How about calling a 800 number and stop wasting peoples time!

I'm glad that Thanksgiving is over  but now it's time to go back to work (boo). Since, I have to study for finals and with family coming in for the holidays, I will be off of this site for a while. Maybe, after the  new year I will have better luck in finding what I am looking for. I have tried before to cut back on going here but I keep the internal hope I will get that life changing message from a sub or slave but that haven't been the case.  Hopefully the new year will bring better luck.

The search goes on. I  am thinking about taking sometime out for this site. The fakes are wearing me out. I need to find a cukhold boyfriend or husband and be done with the search. I will consider moving out of california for the right one.

Is it me or are penis pictures getting old? That also goes for ass shots with various objects shoved in them. Guys, I know you are proud of your various achievements but look at it from the Dommes point of view.  You may think it is unique and cleaver but honestly, I can say for myself  I can  get atleast 25 messages in a day if they all sent me a photo majority of them will be ass and/or penis pictures. I hardly ever get a face shot.  I know this will anger alot of guys but it's true. I don't mind a picture like that but how about after I seen a few other shots of you?

I added a few new pictures. Two of my new boobs!!!

Had a great day today!! Everything is ready to go for the surgery. I'm getting all of the last minute things together. Have my camera ready for before and after pictures! Hopefully, I could find some potential subs/slaves to keep my spirits up while I recover.