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Sakura

sexybrownlady

Male Submissive, 22, Asheboro, North Carolina
Switch Couple, 25
Female Submissive, 30, Denver, Colorado
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About sexybrownlady

I've been doing this for a little while, less than a year.

And although I started out playing as a "Pro Domme", and though I do have some dominant qualities, I realize that my true bedroom nature is more submissive (although i also have a sensually sadistic side).

So lately I've been experimenting on the submissive/masochistic side, discovering what I like, and having my limits tested.

I like rope play, restraints, nipple clamping, spankings, things like that. Light somewhat sensual stuff for now-No blood, or cutting or maiming. Nothing really hardcore-
No disrespect to those who are.

Not looking for a relationship
at this time, but open to having a real time play partner for exploration. (Im in NYC area, but may consider travel).

**Note: At this time, I do charge for my time when meeting, and there is no sex involved.

Im also interested in events, so please feel free to let me know about them!

Also, will absolutely not engage in/entertain any requests for online chat/phone play. I dont have time.

But feel free to say hi and introduce yourself.

Lewd pictures will get you BLOCKED!

And when i say lewd, i mean photos of genitallia, no thanks!

OK new label. Here goes..... A masochistic bottom with submissive tendencies... But still "Dominant until proven submissive". Hows that???
I think Im officially a switch. The power dynamic is what intrigues me. The determining factor of whether or not I will be Dom or sub simply depends on person to person vibrational dynamics-most importantly, its the mind fuck, and specifically the subtext, the unsaid power beyond the words. But, not the unsaid in a secretive sense. Shit, I guess it has to be a pretty much psychic connection.
I have enough life experience to see pass BS. You WILL be tested, and must be WORTHY to earn my submission. Ill say it again, I am Dominant until proven submissive. Im not interested in anyone who is attempting to use their "Dominance" just to troll for sex. Its ok to be curious, but Im not interested in WHINING, bitching wannabees. If you are the Dom for me, I will know. I will be undeniably drawn to you, even by email. It will just be your "way" and I will just know. It is not something that can be feigned either. I will know. Please read my profile fully before contacting me as a prospect. Other than that, its ok to say hi. :)
Do I need this LIFESTYLE or do I just need THERAPY???
WARNING!: I am dominant until proven submissive.
I am seeking real life mentors (both sub and Dom.) as well as in the Vanilla sense. I think im somewhat intrigued with power exchange right now, and how to obtain/maintain it, and how to trust enough to give it up when appropriate. Its deeper than just sex for me, its about connecting, understanding, and being understood.
Am i a dominant masochist or a submisive sadist? Im starting to be infatuated with labeling myself. I'll stop that now.
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