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Male Submissive, 40, Hampshire
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About SettianoMinuit
i'm still looking for my first scene, my first playmate, my first Dom.
Although i have had an account on CM for a few years, i have not actively used it until now. i am a novice seeking an experienced Dom to instruct me in the art of submission. i've always had to be in control and have a hard time giving it over to someone else, which is exactly what i need to do and should have done a long time ago. i want to be tied up and punished. i am looking for a Dom/Domme who is strong but gentle, demanding but fair. i need someone to take control. A Dom/Domme, in my opinion, should be stern, almost Victorian. i want a mixture of old world chivalry and discipline. i need that firm hand; i need the tender touch.
i have always wanted to be a wife in the fifties sense of the word. i want to make and keep a house in order so as to make my husband's life easier. i want to have dinner on the table when he comes home and his martini waiting in my hand when he walks through the door. (i use he, but i could easily do the same for a woman.) i do want to be a teacher, but i would be able to teach and take care of a small to normal household.
i'm an extra-super thick history buff who happens to be such a grammar freak that i have a hard time using lower case i for me and capitals for Doms. my text messages are always punctuated and correctly spelled. i enjoy reading classic novelists such as Charles Dickens and modern novelists such as Kathleen McGowan. i’ve even written a few poems and short stories. i listen to music in genres ranging from classic country to hard rock and love a good live set. i've traveled 6 hours by car just to see Cher. i'm also a bit of a TV drama buff; i’m a Saving Grace and The Cleaner addict who enjoys a good dose of Bones and Criminal Minds as well. Movies are another area of wide variation; The Boondock Saints and The Littlest Colonel are both in my list of favorites. Snorkeling, camping, and boating are some of my favorite outdoor activities. my friends and i play board games such as Scrabble and Risk and card games including Spades and Shasta Sam. Food is a love of mine, and i love trying new foods. i enjoy Turkish, Creole, Chinese, Italian, Indian, Thai, Greek, and Japanese. i am addicted to compliments and love nothing more than to hear the sounds of people enjoying a meal i prepared.
i know that i have beautiful features, but i do not believe that i am beautiful at a glance. i am overweight and have dark circles under my eyes and scars on my legs and hips. i love my face and the curve of my butt. i like my hands when my nails are long and the sprinkle of freckles on my cleavage. i am the girl who improves with familiarity. my charms are not evident on a first meeting, which is probably why i don't interview well. i'm shy and take a long while to become comfortable enough to come out of my shell. i see no reason to judge people by the color of skin or religion or bank account. i have black family members and homosexual friends, including my best friend of sixteen years.
i enjoy the rough side of vanilla sex in that i love to have my hair pulled and my ass spanked to stinging while being drilled from the back. i enjoy looking up from my knees with a mouth full of cock to see the smile of pleasure on the face of a man. it makes me feel naughty. i want to be paddled and spanked and made to sting and glow, to be teased and slowly broken in.
i have never had an orgasm during intercourse, or even vaginally with the use of fingers or toys. i have only had one orgasm with another person, and that was achieved during manual clitoral stimulation. While i have difficulty climaxing with a partner, i have no problem doing so alone. i hope to change that with the level of trust and intimacy required between a Dom/Domme and sub. i'm looking for a partner, someone who is experienced and patient and willing to help me overcome my fears and relinquish control and finally, break free.
i am unwilling to relocate more than 2 hours away from my current home. i have a very good reason, which i will share with anyone who asks.
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A couple more things about me:
1. Family is important to me, and it is for that reason that i am unwilling to relocate more than 2 hours from my home. i have a beautiful neice and a handsome nephew that i want to watch grow up.
2. i know age is just a number, but i find myself unable to date anyone born after 1984 or before 1968. my brother was born in '84 and my father was born in '59. i can't see myself with someone younger than my brother or closer to my dad's age than mine. i don't judge people who do date outside their generation, but it stil seems a bit too weird for me. Please don't be offended by this. |
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In general, i want a lover who sees ME. Who lays me on the bed and loves me gently one day and tosses me around the next. i want someone to be glad to come home to me. i want a mate i can laze on the sofa and read books and eat fruit and wear wool socks with, someone to wash my back in the shower and make the coffee every once in a while. i want someone who doesn?t mind the horribly nasty things we did and said in the bedroom the night before, someone who still thinks of me as a lady, even after last night. i want someone who doesn?t mind my crazy days and knows when to wipe my tears and how to make me laugh. i want to look into someone else?s eyes and see the love He feels for me and how beautiful He thinks i am and know that i have finally found my One.
i find myself searching for a very specific type of Dom/Domme. Being my first, i have ideas as to what He/She should be. i don't mean that i want a certain physical profile to be filled; although i do have my ranges for height, weight, and age. These are just the things i know i am attracted to, just as every person has his or her physical markers. What i am looking for is a person who is looking for something long-term, who is patient, willing to train me one on one, someone who understands that, while i am willing to explore and push my boundaries and limits, i am nervous, scared even. i don't just want to be used and tossed aside; i want a loving touch after sessions, to be held, comforted, praised. i want to look into His eyes and see how much He loves me and how proud of me He is.
Now, i'm not naive enough to believe in love at first sight; i know that will only come with time. What i want is someone who is open to the possibility of love, who also wants O/our relationship to be long-term. i don't want to begin my training only to have it come sporadically or end abruptly. i want to get to know a person, date even, before committing to training so that when W/we reach the point of training, there is already a comfort and a trust level established, which is why i am unwilling to play online or commit to anyone long distance. Real time, in person, in my opinion, is the only way to do this.
There are, of course, other things I want in and from a Dom/Domme, such as the ability to still think for myself and be a person outside of Him. I?m willing to give up a great deal, but I don?t want to lose myself completely. i?m just starting to like me. The proper Dom/Domme will make me better, tear down the parts that need to be and rebuild those parts stronger, better, in His image.
As an extremely overweight girl, i am willing to be placed on a strict regiment of diet and exercise, of being denied even the access to food without permission. This is extreme, i know, but with the appropriate Dom/Domme, this is not dangerous.
Patience is key when training as i am a lifestyle virgin who has never done a single scene. There will be things I will be afraid of trying, embarrassed to do, ashamed of admitting, but He will guide me through these things and show me the pleasure and freedom in them. |
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