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Male Switch, 33, Skokie IL, Illinois
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About sergeprammstein
Definitely not a proper submissive.
Active and known on the N.W. scene for the last five years.
I have a post graduate degree in Literature having studied poetry.
Contrary to popular belief, I am sane.
A pescitarian and rampant pro smoker of increasing fanaticism. |
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serge prammstein is known as Max_Muesli on other kink sites, and he is either too computer illiterate to change his name here or it is impossible to do so.
serge prammstein has retreated to refreshing regions of excessive mundanity in the face of intensifying social blandness.
serge prammstein likes reality.
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Sergeprammstein is a founder member of The Pervey Family and he tingles. |
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John Cale live singing the Leonard Cohen song Hallelujah - have a dvd copy of it and listening to it obsessively.
Ubu Roi is in the frame, so it's green thoughts in a green shade, by my green candle!
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Naming of the Parts
When I'm feeling out of sorts,
And haunted by unseemly thoughts,
When war atrocity is teeming,
I simply think of Tracey Emin,
Opening up my Arts -
Is it myself I see in parts? |
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It seems to me to perhaps be the case that many profiles on bdsm sites are made by wannabes, and that there is a shortage of "real" people.
Now, I am "real" - but it can be staggering what you can find if you make the jump from fantasy worlds to making it real. It changes dramatically in that the reality of it is far less exciting than the idea. And there are enormous patches of boredom, especially from the male bottom's point of view.
Oh sure, with or without effort you can use impression management techniques (or let others use their management techniques of the projection of meaning) to create a persona who is apparently riddled with Play opportunities, and sometimes, perhaps, for real that can be true (discretion prevents admission here), but in my experience only at certain points.
The more experience you have on the scene the more able you and others are to successfully create this kind of thing, and the more play will drift your way through it - though it is highly fickle.
One wonders if starting from a flat line of no experience and being a complete bull sh***er works? Nothing would surprise me.
At the moment things look staggeringly unplayful out there (to me anyway, and by my standard of what the word Play means), so here comes the sitting at home with the cocoa.
This is part of it. This is part of being a real player. This is why "Personal Services" is a good picture of things while "Preaching to the Perverted" is good wank fodder only.
In a scene populated by fantasy based sexualities, to actually have a real niche sexuality, that wants to bite down on the reality of things, puts you in a severe minority in the face of the mundanity of things I have found.
Life is not just for display purposes.
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Literary corner, of relevance to people who have read Conrad's "Heart of Darkness".
All the way through the name of Kurtz is whispered, gasped as if in awe, the very jungle itself seems to breathe the name Kurtz.
I believe the word Kurtz is connected in meaning to the german for reduced or shortened. When we meet Kurtz himself he is like some reduced etoliated vampire thing - nothing at all like Brando in A Puckered Lips Now.
My disdain for post modernism is well known, in fact my gloriously failed literary career was based on the mauling of post modernism - failure is success in the political helix twisted mirror these days btw, but let me be whacky, funky and as cheeky as Brit Art.
Marlow got to see the wizard, the wonderful wizard of Us.
Intellectual cheapskate British pinnochio nosed reactors on state approved incomes have vaunted "transferable skills" in my direction - but if they read Heart of Darkness at all they read it as a one dimensional sociological tract on the Belgian Congo. They have failed to see that HOD is an allegory, and they fail to transfer the skills of allegory to another place.
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Photos approved. There are a couple of things to say here, on the one hand I'm always on the moderate side of things - though can be psychologically extreme. The two gimp pictures were actually me on a vanilla night out.
Btw, there is a Tradition in what we are, and to ignore it is to the detriment of us all.
I'm not a purist gimp, though sometimes it can look like it, in the same way that I am not a submissive at all, but it can look very much like it.
More on me - I'm picky about who I play with and if it hasn't got Love in it I'm not interested. My opinion is that an emphasis on genuine superiority and inferiority in Play is not what things should be about for me.
One thing that fascinates me about Play, and switch play in particular, is the way that the apparent bottom can actually call the shots while the apparent top genuinely submits to being in service to that.
Hats off to other people who have different world views and make a success of other ways of D/S - I find myself increasingly on my own planet in my descriptions of things, and for me it is far better the hard yoke of liberty as a wet girl's blouse rather than the servile pomp of someone else's control.
You'll find me in the isolated corner of things, often dressed in grannie underwear and smelling of ovaltine and cigarettes. |
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